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    There is this girl in my class who I've been messaging for a while now, we seem to really get along and have great conversations. I'm confident she likes me, and I like her, so I was thinking of asking her on a date. However, I've never done this sort of thing before, and so I don't really know how to approach it and ask her, as I don't want to get rejected and it to be embarrassing next time we see each other. Any advice? Thanks
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    Depends how close your are.

    We were really good friends so just saying wana get a coffie wouldnt work. I took her to her favorite place and said "I really like you, can i take you out to dinner some time?" she said yes.
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    We aren't that close, but when we do see each other we feel comfortable and at ease. We don't go out at weekends together or anything like that, but sometimes we will be at the same party and again we get along well
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    There is this girl in my class who I've been messaging for a while now, we seem to really get along and have great conversations. I'm confident she likes me, and I like her, so I was thinking of asking her on a date. However, I've never done this sort of thing before, and so I don't really know how to approach it and ask her, as I don't want to get rejected and it to be embarrassing next time we see each other. Any advice? Thanks
    Ask her out for dinner or something, when you are on the 'date; just flirt with her, she will get the picture and act how she feels
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    Maybe ask to meet up and study together, and see what she says?

    Or if you want to skip that think about where the date would be, and suggest doing that as casually as possible?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    There is this girl in my class who I've been messaging for a while now, we seem to really get along and have great conversations. I'm confident she likes me, and I like her, so I was thinking of asking her on a date. However, I've never done this sort of thing before, and so I don't really know how to approach it and ask her, as I don't want to get rejected and it to be embarrassing next time we see each other. Any advice? Thanks
    I think something really cool could be: do you want to go bowling this saturday? She'll never say no and when you're on the date make sure that she gets how much you like her
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    Ok, thanks for the replies, I'll probably go for the bowling idea, but I don't want it to come out of the blue, so any ideas on how to create a conversation which will lead to the perfect chance of asking her?
 
 
 
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