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    Can someone help? my family is getting INCREASINGLY annoying. ever since my dad return after deserting us for 3 years my mum has gone cold to me. now theyre both paring up to pressure me to do lots of things, they call me lazy despite i deal with all the paper work at home (foreign parents), despite i look after my brother in place of them, despite my exams are coming up, theyre not registering the fact that i stay in my room to revise not only play games. now theyre pressuring me to work part time in their shop, i've told them that i want to work part time else where. i'm all eager and keen to work for myself but not for them, they're totally disregarding everything i've done for them and continue to slack me off like I'm some hobo. im going overload and thoughts about what if i just die pop up now and again, how would they feel then, do they not think?!
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    get a job somewhere else already and they will stop going on at you for not having one. Have some independence, leave the house and enjoy yourself, work hard with your exams so you can go onto uni and move out. Baby steps...
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    If you feel it's too much then just say to them, I can only manage so much at once, and I really feel as though I need to focus on my studies as my future career is more important than any job I could possibly take on now.
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