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    Hi everyone

    Recently I've been dating this amazing guy.. and we really clicked and things are going amazing.

    There is a lot of sexual attraction between us.. but when it comes to the whole sex thing I've always had it in my head that i wanted to wait until i was married.

    But meeting this guy I'm not too sure about that now!

    Hes not a virgin.. but any tips on how to make that first night amazing?

    im nervous!
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    Just go for it. By 22 you must be gagging for it + you have found someone you trust and fancy the pants off. Discuss how to make it special with him.
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    (Original post by Zarek)
    Just go for it. By 22 you must be gagging for it + you have found someone you trust and fancy the pants off. Discuss how to make it special with him.
    *facepalms*
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    Just go with it if you want to; virginity is an outdated concept that these days should have little meaning.
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    You shouldn't have intercourse until you are married.
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    I think it depends on the MAIN reason(s) why you kept your virginity all these years (and really, how strong they are). Now you mentioned you've always wanted to wait until you were married. Is this because of religious purposes or perhaps, you just didn't want to "regret" losing it to some guy you wouldn't end up with? The main question is why you decided to make that decision in the first place. (And i mean the MAIN reason why).
    If you believe you could easily lose it now without any regrets after (even if things don't go the way you want with this guy), then i don't see what's stopping you, really. If not, then i'd say to hold on to the MAIN reason(s) why you decided to wait (Might be worth it in the end).
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    (Original post by Adamski2409)
    *facepalms*
    Did he lie tho
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    You can do blowjobs and stuff if you don't want to lose virginity... Is that biblical sex or not? Anyway just don't get pregnant until you know he's the one.
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    Don't you think you have waited long enough...let's face it you're getting on a bit
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    I would say you should go with what you're feeling, but try to make the decision without the emotion... If that makes sense...
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    Hire a practice partner first. Preparation is key as you don't want to mess it up with this guy. PM me for more info. Rates negotiable. Pictures required prior.

    In all seriousness it will just happen naturally. I wouldn't prepare for some awesome night, just go with the flow and see what happens.
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    yes.
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    Waiting till you are married is a great concept. A better concept in my opinion which I wish I had done was just make sure it happens with someone worth while who you really really do like, unfortunately so many of us jump the gun when we're young and our first memories of it aren't much special, so in regards to that perspective you're in a good position already

    Just go for it when it feels right, don't plan it.
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    You know what will make it truly special?

    Doing it after your wedding night.

    Then again, marriage in the UK is legal suicide for a man, so the best you might get is some sort of ceremony and legal cohabitation.

    I'd say oral sex is the best bet, if you want to make him happy.
 
 
 
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