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Have i ruined my chance of a relationship with this girl? watch

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    So, gunna try and keep this short and sweet. Im 19 and there is this girl i've got quite a crush on (i've never had a girlfriend, big crush lol), but i think i've blown my chances of getting anywhere. We first met about a year ago, my (old) friend was dating her and i met her when i went round his house. Ever since then we've spoken, nothing serious just casual chat. They broke up about 5-6 months ago and she kept talking to me since, i've kinda picked up signals that she might like me. In that timespan i havent realy shown an interest, but she would send lots of x's in out chats, i'd match them so i dont make any of us awkward. Its only now that i've realised she is realy pretty and a genuenly nice person. Cutting to the chase, we were supposed to meet but i put it off because i was so nervous about meeting her, i felt like i'd changed since she last seen me (physicaly, like weight, sh*tty haircut e.c.t) and i didnt want to confront her because of it. Now in the chats she seems less interested... I think i've ****ed up big time.
    What should i do? I realy like her but i feel i've lost my chance, i want to ask to meet up again but im afraid she would say no to it :'(
    Any help would be appreciated, kinda stuck in a bad spot here.
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    I would suggest asking if she wants to meet up.

    You can change your weight and hair cut at a different time. She will like you regardless of these thing and obviously likes you and wants to meet you again. Just message her, she will say yes.
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