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    My best friend of 2 years has recently asked me out. He is 21 and I am 18. However he and my sister went out when they were 15-16. The didn't have sex with each other, and my sister is fine with us being friends as she doesn't consider him a proper ex, just a high school romance. Since then they have both had long term relationships. Would it be wrong to say yes? I really want to but don't know what to do?
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    I think it would be fine to date him but maybe just mention it to your sister
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    Yes it's wrong, age gap is too big, you shouldn't have asked him out, you both have to be the same age, wait a few years until you're both 21 then you can ask him out.
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    (Original post by Cold 187um)
    Yes it's wrong, age gap is too big, you shouldn't have asked him out, you both have to be the same age, wait a few years until you're both 21 then you can ask him out.
    This logic is impeccable.
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    (Original post by Cold 187um)
    Yes it's wrong, age gap is too big, you shouldn't have asked him out, you both have to be the same age, wait a few years until you're both 21 then you can ask him out.
    (Original post by InterventionalCT)
    This logic is impeccable.
    Stop trolling guys! This is someone's life we're talking about!

    I'd say it's fine and to go for it. But as the other poster said, just pass it by your sister first. Ask her: So and so asked me out, is it okay with you if I date him. I'm sure she'll say it's fine and you won't have to do that weird awkward hiding who he is for ages either. Better get any awkwardness out of the way!
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    (Original post by InterventionalCT)
    This logic is impeccable.
    Your avatar is really cute
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    (Original post by Cold 187um)
    Your avatar is really cute
    Thank you? I don't know what makes it cute but thanks regardless.
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    (Original post by Cold 187um)
    Your avatar is really cute
    I agree :fleurdelis:
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    (Original post by Cold 187um)
    Yes it's wrong, age gap is too big, you shouldn't have asked him out, you both have to be the same age, wait a few years until you're both 21 then you can ask him out.
    you think 3 years is an age gap my parents had a 17 year gap and my mum's friend had a 27 year age gap
 
 
 
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