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My crush's birthday is tomorrow, should i buy her gifts?

Would that improve my image and thus chances or will it backfire?

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Reply 1

Lunch Money

I'd suggest just getting her a card.

Reply 2

Kevin De Bruyne

Depends on how close you are.

Don't go for multiple gifts / expensive gifts, that'll creep her out.

Maybe one thoughtful, small gift if it's appropriate for you to get her something.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Original post by Foo.mp3

More interpersonal context please :smile:

she's my colleague. I think she knows I like her but i haven't make a move yet. Her birthday is tomorrow i was thinking of getting her a little gift. Would that be romantic?

Reply 4

ThePrick

LMAO no. Offer to take her out for a few drinks to celebrate her birthday.

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 5

Tom78

Get her a card at most, if you're friends that should be fine.

Reply 6

arashixo

You could give her something like a flower or some sweets, I think that would be lovely.

Reply 7

jamescameron1111

Say this "Are you Medusa? Because I'm rock hard"

Reply 8

iammeyouareyou

Don't get her a gift if you're not friends. If you are friends then maybe buy her a card.
Either way, say Happy Birthday and offer to buy her a drink or something.

Reply 9

intelligent con

NO don't do it. I have a friend who did that and was painfully rejected. The whole school heard about it. Not nice.

Reply 10

hektik

Original post by Anonymous

Would that improve my image and thus chances or will it backfire?

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If you know the person as a friend, do it, but as a friend. But considering you're considering doing it to win them over, I wouldn't recommend it. If you're not even friends, don't do it, it's quite strange thing to do for someone you don't know.

So a gift only if she is your friend and as a friend.

If you like this person, get to know them a bit better for your own purposes (maybe she isn't the person you thought she was) and if you still like her, and you think she likes you (which I think is quite important), ask if she wants to go and do something together and move from there. If she isn't interested, leave it there. You can't win them all and worry about something you can't change is counter-productive. If she is interested, then great.

Reply 11

HucktheForde

Original post by Foo.mp3

If you sense there's mutual interest/chemistry then sure, if that's what you feel like doing/the kind of thing you'd normally do - a cute little gift (especially a thoughtful one) would be sweet. Just make sure it/they're not too OTT e.g. I wouldn't spend more than £5-£10 on a girl I'd never dated personally :scrooge:

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Reply 12

HollyCrysell1

my crushes birthday is tomorrow too!!!!And I am doing homework at the moment and I don't know what to do!We know each other a bit, and he does flirt with me, I really really want to get him something, so if someone could reply in the next 5-10 minutes, that would be great!!

Reply 13

Jesus684

Maybe take her to the movies?

Reply 14

CharUK

Well if you know her well then yes. But it also depends whether you want her to know.

Original post by Anonymous

Would that improve my image and thus chances or will it backfire?

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