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    I lost my virginity at 15 (now almost 18) and I have had sex since with different partners. But every time I have sex I really struggle physically to be 'on top'. I can't get the rhythm or position and it just feels uncomfortable. This guy that I'm with now wants me on top but I'm too nervous incase I embarrass myself. Any advice?
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    (Original post by Mary1860)
    This guy that I'm with now wants me on top but I'm too nervous incase I embarrass myself. Any advice?
    My advice is stop going on your phone in the middle of having sex, stop going on TSR do what he says and do it well hun.

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    Speaking as a guy. I doubt he will complain.
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    (Original post by hellodave5)
    Speaking as a guy. I doubt he will complain.
    I would. If someone's not good in bed I get up put my clothes on and leave their arse.
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    You can practise on me first if you want :drool:
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    Is it that you run out of steam while you're up there?
    Seriously just go with the flow, and the guy should be helping you as well (like moving your hips and like lifting you slightly) because if not then you'll run out of stamina quite quick and lose the pace
    If you both have the same rhythm as in moving up and down of in a circular motion at the same time he moves you as well then it should work really well and you'll be in sync, so my advice is that if you start to falter or lose rhythm just guide his hands to your hips and let him help you
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    Reverse cowgirl is easier IMO.
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    This is probably an issue of technique more than anything.

    Do you have a promiscuous female friend? Everybody knows one, think Charlie Harper or James Bond with breasts. This is the person to ask about anything sex related. Failing that, the internet will help.
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    Remember, up and down, not back and forth
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    Well, I'm a virgin, so I'm not even sure why I'm answering this thread. However, I can ride a bike and similarly to when you first ride a bike I imagine it's pretty normal to fall of a few times, it's just natural and if your boyfriend doesn't understand that then you can tell him where to go. Returning to my bike riding analogy, just start of slowly and build up a rhythm then gradually build up the tempo.
    Sex is like a rock band... you start of like these guys:
    And then you realize your computer skills suck...

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jj7pDNDuoJ0
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    I know how to do that well and I have never even rode a ****. OP you just sound clumsy and you're probably not a good dancer either. It's OK some people just ain't got the moves like Jagger.
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    put your hands/a little weight on his chest, lean forward slightly and basically twerk on his d*** - it's tiring on your knees but I've been complimented with my abilities on top lmao
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    Well with all the tips and the whole recommendation of reverse cowgirl.... all I lack is a suitable lady friend

    Screw you TSR.... screw you!
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    It's fine not to like certain positions, for example reverse cowgirl is really uncomfortable (although i do like being on top in general).


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