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    Right so this guy has a gf but we have become very close friends and we are very honest and open with each other and have seen each other naked and are just very comfortable.
    The thing is he keeps being very distracting to me like I'm somewhere and he knows I'm out with someone else and he just happens to be in a dirty mood... Like I was at a friends and we start talking kinks and he sends me 'pictures' of himself (I don't mind the pics cos that's nothing new but why when I'm busy) or I'm in a shop and he is saying how he bets he cld get me wet and how he might squeeze in a w4nk before he has to do something and I'm left with that thought ... This is just recently. In person he's the same, like we have cuddled but he takes it a bit far like he puts his hands where he shouldn't with a friend and it's u fair to make me feel that way cos he has a gf so I'm the one that has to control herself.

    But why does he do it if we have said we are strictly friends? Does he enjoy making me feel uncomfortable?
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    The **** I read on TSR, I swear..
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    I would steer well clear of him if I were you. He does not sound like a nice person.
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    So he has a girlfriend and he's trying it on with you. Poor girlfriend.
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    He clearly enjoys messing with people's feelings. Walk away from the situation.
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    (Original post by anosmianAcrimony)
    I would steer well clear of him if I were you. He does not sound like a nice person.
    The thing is he's an amazing person and we get on so well and we are extremely comfortable with each other and we have set the boundaries and had that talk yet he still does it.
    Would you do it to another person just for fun or could there be a reason he does that?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    The thing is he's an amazing person and we get on so well and we are extremely comfortable with each other and we have set the boundaries and had that talk yet he still does it.
    Would you do it to another person just for fun or could there be a reason he does that?

    No, no he isn't.
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    Wrong site, mate. This forum doesn't cater for sexual fantasies.
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    (Original post by lyrical_lie)
    So he has a girlfriend and he's trying it on with you. Poor girlfriend.
    Yeah that's what I'm thinking and it's not fair what he does to me when I'm trying to make this friendship work cos I do really like him as a friend.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    The thing is he's an amazing person and we get on so well and we are extremely comfortable with each other and we have set the boundaries and had that talk yet he still does it.
    Would you do it to another person just for fun or could there be a reason he does that?
    You should tell his girlfriend about all this, then you can both know and talk about how amazing of a person he is.
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    (Original post by SeanFM)
    He clearly enjoys messing with people's feelings. Walk away from the situation.
    Hmm idk he's a complicated person but he's a great person just a bit too outgoing and teasing.

    But does he do it for fun or is there a reason?
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    (Original post by Boondock Saint)
    Wrong site, mate. This forum doesn't cater for sexual fantasies.
    Why wld I lie... It's hardly a fantasy anyone wld want to have 😂
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Right so this guy has a gf but we have become very close friends and we are very honest and open with each other and have seen each other naked and are just very comfortable.
    The thing is he keeps being very distracting to me like I'm somewhere and he knows I'm out with someone else and he just happens to be in a dirty mood... Like I was at a friends and we start talking kinks and he sends me 'pictures' of himself (I don't mind the pics cos that's nothing new but why when I'm busy) or I'm in a shop and he is saying how he bets he cld get me wet and how he might squeeze in a w4nk before he has to do something and I'm left with that thought ... This is just recently. In person he's the same, like we have cuddled but he takes it a bit far like he puts his hands where he shouldn't with a friend and it's u fair to make me feel that way cos he has a gf so I'm the one that has to control herself.

    But why does he do it if we have said we are strictly friends? Does he enjoy making me feel uncomfortable?
    :lolwut:

    You're both twisted.
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    (Original post by scotttb)
    You should tell his girlfriend about all this, then you can both know and talk about how amazing of a person he is.
    She's lovely too and they do make a cute couple. Right the thing is... We've always had something between us for a couple of years but I wasn't really looking at him that way because I thought we didn't match. Then he got a gf. Then I started being more social and he started talking to me and we became extremely close and were good friends but at times he takes it too far and I'm wondering why that is... Is it cos what I've felt for the last few years was actually real or is he just doing it for fun?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hmm idk he's a complicated person but he's a great person just a bit too outgoing and teasing.

    But does he do it for fun or is there a reason?
    Great person... right.

    Anyway, maybe he wants the best of both worlds from you and her.
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    (Original post by Josb)
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    You're both twisted.
    Hahahah yeah I see that when I write it down 😂 but idk we click and I enjoy his company and I care for him but I don't get why he does that to me even though we say we are friends?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hahahah yeah I see that when I write it down 😂 but idk we click and I enjoy his company and I care for him but I don't get why he does that to me even though we say we are friends?
    Because he's a prick who likes to manipulate you. Since you seem to enjoy it, he has no reason to stop.
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    Complicated.... I see... But you should run away... There's no saving here honey...!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yeah that's what I'm thinking and it's not fair what he does to me when I'm trying to make this friendship work cos I do really like him as a friend.
    How can you like him as a friend if he treats people like that. If it was one of my friends I'd tell them to get a bloody grip.
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    (Original post by lyrical_lie)
    How can you like him as a friend if he treats people like that. If it was one of my friends I'd tell them to get a bloody grip.
    Cos 90% of the time he's an amazing and charming guy but 10% of the time he is teasing. All that I am wondering is that is it only now that because we have become friend our chemistry that we've had for a couple of years is coming through or is he doing it for fun?
 
 
 
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