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    I'm in my first ever serious relationship and in previous things I've always faked orgasms. Ive never had one and I'm 21, I don't think Im able to. I've faked them with my boyfriend numerous times and he's never noticed but I'm starting to feel like I'm lying to him, It's been 3 months- is it too late in the relationship to mention this and will it upset him to know I've been faking?
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    Worst thing to do is fake it, might be better to start telling the truth.
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    errr.....is it that small?
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    Faking it isn't great, it's better to tell the truth. I don't see the point in faking it, personally.
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    He may be upset that you've lied to him, but better to tell him the truth now, rather than later down the line.
    I have never been able to orgasm from penetrative sex and I'm upfront about it if I'm with someone. I'd feel weird faking anyway
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    Would you be upset if he fakes it?
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    If you are not willing to admit to him that you've been faking it, just at minimum stop faking it from now on.

    If you always fake it then he will be led to believe he is helping you achieve that and therefore not try anything new or different which COULD actually help you really achieve orgasm. The only downside to not telling him, and just stopping the faking - he might then feel low that he believes he used to be able to and just suddenly can't anymore. But at this point you can try new things and maybe you'll manage to get there. Don't worry. If anything learn to do it for yourself and then teach him the way!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm in my first ever serious relationship and in previous things I've always faked orgasms. Ive never had one and I'm 21, I don't think Im able to. I've faked them with my boyfriend numerous times and he's never noticed but I'm starting to feel like I'm lying to him, It's been 3 months- is it too late in the relationship to mention this and will it upset him to know I've been faking?
    there's a difference between not enjoying it and not managing to get an orgasm from penetrative sex
    if you're enjoying but just not managing to finish, let him know so he can try and put in more effort in different avenues. break it to him easily and make sure you let him know you enjoy it but just can't finish just with sex.
    it's a bit late but im sure hell understand why you did it.
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    to clarify I can't orgasm from anything AT ALL. It's not just a sex thing, I can't do it alone either.
 
 
 
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