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    When women are older, say in their 40's and they find it harder to meet people/find a man (apparantly its harder) what kind of things make her more attractive/more of a catch? Like if she had a certain career or dress sense etc.
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    My advice would be to not care about how 'attractive' you are- be yourself and live your life for you, NOT anyone else otherwise you're going to have a very fragile ego. You could try signing up to dating agencies or groups etc if you want to find someone but really love is so unpredictable (as cheesy as it sounds!) and if you focus too much on finding a partner then you're going to waste your life away. Focus on doing things that make you happy as you are- you shouldn't need anyone to make you happy, it all starts with you. Hope this helped
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    Err confidence, it''s failry clear that is the issue here, along with intellect and believing herself worth of a guy, especially a younger guy. Not be sexually prudish, confident and experieced in your sexuality and also quite unashamed about as I say, being worth a guy who is attractive or younger, being unashamed of sexual desires and knowing you have the right to that, and also being willing to compete and win him where necessary. If you are willing to be dominant to add to that dimension, or take the lead. That is hot.
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    I've noticed the older women get the shorter there hair gets, which is very ageing and doesn't help. Touch up grey hairs (i'm think of 50yr old women) and maybe don't go above shoulder length hair. Apparently you can tell if you fancy someone within 5-10 seconds so do research for style; Sofia Vergara is 43 and she is gorgeous... oh and confidence
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    When women are older, say in their 40's and they find it harder to meet people/find a man (apparantly its harder) what kind of things make her more attractive/more of a catch? Like if she had a certain career or dress sense etc.
    Cmon girl, put your jeans on, your head is still 20-something, be a laugh, just gopher it!

    Speaks an er older student !
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    Look younger. Act younger. Feel younger.
 
 
 
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