I don't feel anything during sex

Reply 20

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Try watching porn and viewing erotic images to see whether they arouse you. If you find something that does, try masturbating. Also, buy some sex toys and see what happens. All this should tell you whether you're sexual or asexual, straight or gay, and whether your clitoris works in the usual way.

If you're sexual and straight (or bi) you should then consider whether your fiancé turns you on. If he doesn't, are you happy to have an asexual relationship with him? If he does, maybe have him focus on giving you erotic massages, going down on you etc - everything other than vaginal sex - so you have an enjoyable sexual relationship with him. Most girls don't climax from vaginal sex, so maybe don't do it, or have it as just one of the things the two of you do together.

Reply 21

rebec1

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by Anonymous

Basically as it says in the title, I frequently do not feel anything during sex. I do not mean that I am numb and have no sense of touch but I very rarely, and if I do, only fleetingly feel any sensation and it has literally never built up to anything that I would label pleasurable. I am in my twenties, have been sexually active for two years, and am engaged. I am not into touching myself and just can't get myself to do that. The one time I did try nothing really happened either. I have not had experience with any men other than my fiancé and would say that I am sexually immature and find talking about sex not very easy. I like the close aspect of sex but that is about as far as it goes. I hear girls going on about how they could not live without sex and how wonderful it is and I just feel like I am missing out. I would like to have a pleasurable experience like everyone else. I am not asking for sex tips or anything, I just want to know if anyone has had this well and whether anything made things change for them.

I used to hate sex but crave it anyway and I didn't get why because I was like why am I so horny it's not like I'm going to enjoy sex anyway, it used to hurt and that was it, it took me nearly a year to enjoy sex with my current partner but now I do really like it, does it hurt for you? is that why you don't enjoy it?

Reply 22

Babygirl10111111

1

I don't feel anything neither

Reply 23

airf1977

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I think it depends on the man.With my exes I did feel it but with my new man I don't.

Reply 24

Lennshks

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It might be an illness, underlined problem

Reply 25

Anonymous #6

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by Anonymous

Basically as it says in the title, I frequently do not feel anything during sex. I do not mean that I am numb and have no sense of touch but I very rarely, and if I do, only fleetingly feel any sensation and it has literally never built up to anything that I would label pleasurable. I am in my twenties, have been sexually active for two years, and am engaged. I am not into touching myself and just can't get myself to do that. The one time I did try nothing really happened either. I have not had experience with any men other than my fiancé and would say that I am sexually immature and find talking about sex not very easy. I like the close aspect of sex but that is about as far as it goes. I hear girls going on about how they could not live without sex and how wonderful it is and I just feel like I am missing out. I would like to have a pleasurable experience like everyone else. I am not asking for sex tips or anything, I just want to know if anyone has had this well and whether anything made things change for them.

You such a f*cking w hore😈

I f*ck her when I'm bored
I'm grinding she a w hore
I love it

I know she like it fury, I'm a fire like a lighter
On her pussy go to bed she why she did it, 'Cause she liked it
All we do here is so discreet, if you ask me I know nothing😈
She just jumping on my d*ck, I know she like it👅
'Cause she love it

Reply 26

Graceumu

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Am going through the same thing 🥺I don’t feel nothing when it comes to sex,

Reply 27

Thetallguy99

1

Maybe sex isnt for you :smile:

and theres nothing wrong with that.
If youre not into touching yourself or anything

Reply 28

Mostly Monsense

1

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by catholic69

you're doing it wrong silly child

No, Ur doing it wrong kiddo
*Very belated response, acknowledged

Reply 29

Anonymous #7

Original post

by Anonymous

Basically as it says in the title, I frequently do not feel anything during sex. I do not mean that I am numb and have no sense of touch but I very rarely, and if I do, only fleetingly feel any sensation and it has literally never built up to anything that I would label pleasurable. I am in my twenties, have been sexually active for two years, and am engaged. I am not into touching myself and just can't get myself to do that. The one time I did try nothing really happened either. I have not had experience with any men other than my fiancé and would say that I am sexually immature and find talking about sex not very easy. I like the close aspect of sex but that is about as far as it goes. I hear girls going on about how they could not live without sex and how wonderful it is and I just feel like I am missing out. I would like to have a pleasurable experience like everyone else. I am not asking for sex tips or anything, I just want to know if anyone has had this well and whether anything made things change for them.

For me, I been thinking about sex with my love one, but I never felt pleasure in anything sexual. I've always said I'm asexual, but idek if I am anymore because of the thoughts I have. I looked up and got stuff about hypo sexual things which is no thoughts toward it, graysexual which is just sounding like a low sex drive, and asexual, no feelings or thoughts for it.

Reply 30

Anonymous #8

Original post

by Anonymous

Basically as it says in the title, I frequently do not feel anything during sex. I do not mean that I am numb and have no sense of touch but I very rarely, and if I do, only fleetingly feel any sensation and it has literally never built up to anything that I would label pleasurable. I am in my twenties, have been sexually active for two years, and am engaged. I am not into touching myself and just can't get myself to do that. The one time I did try nothing really happened either. I have not had experience with any men other than my fiancé and would say that I am sexually immature and find talking about sex not very easy. I like the close aspect of sex but that is about as far as it goes. I hear girls going on about how they could not live without sex and how wonderful it is and I just feel like I am missing out. I would like to have a pleasurable experience like everyone else. I am not asking for sex tips or anything, I just want to know if anyone has had this well and whether anything made things change for them.

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Reply 31

Anonymous #9

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by Anonymous

Basically as it says in the title, I frequently do not feel anything during sex. I do not mean that I am numb and have no sense of touch but I very rarely, and if I do, only fleetingly feel any sensation and it has literally never built up to anything that I would label pleasurable. I am in my twenties, have been sexually active for two years, and am engaged. I am not into touching myself and just can't get myself to do that. The one time I did try nothing really happened either. I have not had experience with any men other than my fiancé and would say that I am sexually immature and find talking about sex not very easy. I like the close aspect of sex but that is about as far as it goes. I hear girls going on about how they could not live without sex and how wonderful it is and I just feel like I am missing out. I would like to have a pleasurable experience like everyone else. I am not asking for sex tips or anything, I just want to know if anyone has had this well and whether anything made things change for them.

Hi , I have had experience like this ! I’m still doing it with the and person I lost my virginity to as well. It has changed. We changed the way we had sex. We started to do some stuff. We figured what positions was the best and ever since it’s been grate. You should try different stuff as well

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