So me and girlfriend have been together for nine years, but recently she seems to have lost interest in me. Nowadays, she has put on a lot of weight and just sits around eating, occasionally making growling noises when she's hungry or when I threaten her territory (the sofa).
We used to make passionate love, and now she's just never in the mood and too lazy. I don't think she even wants to consider having childs, I fear my generation will be extinct...
Please help me with my dilemma, what do I do?!
What are the downsides?