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    Good night !

    Today I would like to share something that has been bothering me. I first met my husband when I was twenty years old, we used to study in the same university. I remember when we had a date for the first time, after that we started dating. Some years later, we got married and we have been together until now. My husband is a hard working man, I am really pround of him. Even though he is miles away from me. We try to talk almost everyday. Although the jet lag does not help. I miss him so much, that is why I do not know wether I stay here with my job or move to his place. What should I do?
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    Need more info. What's the distance? Your occupations? Stuff like that...


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    I depends. Is your job the only thing keeping you in the place you are now? Or do you have family and friends, etc which are also tying you to your current home?

    If it's just the job, I would say move to be with your husband. The people you work with and the company you work for might think you're lovely and you might get on with them really well, but at the end of your career, they'll give you a pat on the back and forget about you.

    Your husband is the one you presumably intend to grow old with - surely he matters more than work?

    If it's more than just the job, then it becomes more complicated, but why don't you discuss it with him? Surely you talked about the logistics of living together before you got married?
 
 
 
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