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Can't get enough- sex that is!

Due to having 2 bad experiences in the past:s-smilie: with guys, I sort of closed down on feeling physical with ANY guy, so I've been amazed, shocked and intruiged by the fact that since "meeting" a new guy who I have got to know well before anything physical I appear to have turned into a sex maniac!!!

I just want him all the time, it's so bizarre:eek: Even just walikng down the street if I see a guy who resembles him or say hear a particular piece of music I just want to be with him, so big concern is ....I don't think that he can cope with this avalanche of love which heads his way 24/7!

So is there anything I can do to rein myself in? I'm planning a weekend away in a romantic place where Im going to seduce him:love: it will be my first time:eek: so stressing about that as well:redface: I'm not stressed out by sleeping with a guy for the 1st time, (have contraceptive cover0, it's just will I ever be able to keep my hands off him-----will we ever escape from the bedroom:hubba: ?

I'm assuming that my feelings will calm down? OMG I hope so otherwise he may go into cardiac arrest:eek:

Anyone know how long it takes before you can have a conversation with your icon of lust without wanting to rip his pants off?

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I suspect you will be at it like rabbits to start off with but everyone calms down after the initial 'honeymoon' period'. I'm sure he will be more than happy with your enthusiasm!!!

The romantic weekend away sounds lovely :smile: You seem to have put a lot of thought into your first time, I'm sure he will make it special as possible for you. Have fun :smile:
Reply 2
Is this possibly a little bit of pent up sexual frustration?
It may well relent once you two get it over with.
Reply 3
Well I suffered from that solidly for 3 months and it never subsided for a second, then my object of lust was taken away from me by uni.
It's not good. I think most guys can't handle it, they just get annoyed and a little freaked out.
Reply 4
think of otherways to calm your rampant labido, if the guy can't handle it, it's hardly fair on him

if he can, then you'll both be satisfied! :biggrin:
Reply 5
Sex is not everything, you need to control yourslef.
My advice don't go charging straight into sex
relationships need have more than sex , but you're both into each other like love rabbits wow.. :biggrin: well why not make the most of it.. :p:
Reply 8
Anthonyjm71
relationships need have more than sex , but you're both into each other like love rabbits wow.. :biggrin: well why not make the most of it.. :p:

While their relationship lasts..... lol
Reply 9
We do have things in common outside sex, I'm sure that things will calm down eventually, I'll just have to rein myself in, and concentrate on my Uni course.

As for the relationship lasting .... well I hope it does as he is such a good guy and a good friend as well as a gorgeous:cool:
Reply 10
haha, lets see if you still feel this way after experiencing the ordeal that is, losing your virginity.
Isn't the problem more that you're not getting any than that you can't get enough? If I don't see my boyfriend for a couple of weeks I start to feel slightly crazed, but when I'm with him and it's just...available, it's not so bad.

Not that's it's 'bad' anyway :smile:
Reply 12
Your feelings are normal, they may get worse once you've experianced sex! lol

But it will soon calm down.....finally after over a year the sex has calmed down abit between me and my boyfriend whilst we are apart but as soon as we see eachother (in LDR) then I could do it all day and night...LOL
Reply 13
Title is misleading, given you've never actually had sex.

It's only normal to want sex, especially if you've never had it before.

I get the impression you've met this guy online...if so, have you actually met him in the flesh before?
Fleece
Title is misleading, given you've never actually had sex.

It's only normal to want sex, especially if you've never had it before.

I get the impression you've met this guy online...if so, have you actually met him in the flesh before?


Exactly if you haven't met him in real life, wouldn't you want to get to know him properly, he might seem all nice online but he might be a real idiot in real life or just being nice to get in your underwear.
Reply 15
Fleece
Title is misleading, given you've never actually had sex.

It's only normal to want sex, especially if you've never had it before.

I get the impression you've met this guy online...if so, have you actually met him in the flesh before?

:eek: No way, I have known this guy for some time, heavens meeting a guy from an internet forum, as if?

Oh dear, as soon as I posted this thread I regreted doing so....I must be a very impetuous girl, he is really lovely though, decent and honest not like my 2 former bfs, who were really only interested in having a socially acceptable gf, who "looked" the part, oh touch of immodesty there:redface:
Reply 16
Ok...so what's with the "meeting"? See first post.

Also I never specifically said off a forum :smile:
Reply 17
fair play liking to ahve sex lots, i like it too but i really cnat keep up wiht my girlfriend, we were frinds for like 4 years before we started going out so we have got some catching up to do but sometime i feel i really cant keep up, we dont go out as much as we used to or anything, jmust have sex and sex, i cant keep up at the rate. Is there any side affect of taking viagra even though you dont need it? Just to maintain an erection after you come once or twice?
Reply 18
Just man the *** up and put your dick in the game, mate.
Reply 19
Fleece
Ok...so what's with the "meeting"? See first post.

Also I never specifically said off a forum :smile:


Oh to clarify I had admired him from afar, for some time and so didn't indicate to him for some time that I was really interested in him in a sexual way.

Whoops should have been another quote in there "it's my life", no he is just so different (nearly said alien:eek: ) there to my usual variety of bf, aliens OMG now I'm dating "intergalactic travellers".:frown: