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More pain during lost virginity if he is big? watch

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    Going to lost my virginity soon and expecting something about average size 5" but last night found that he is far away from it. I know his size is huge because my ex having average size and current bf obviously about 8". I am really scare and he know that and keep telling me that he just a bit above average, I know he lie to me. Is this size abnormal? Since breaking a hymen is same regardless the penis size, but why they said that will hurt more if he is big. My friend told me that now all girl hurt the first time, but his size going to hurt even I am relax and use lube, is it true? Anybody experience with this size especially your first time, was it hurt?
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    If hes too big or if you find it uncomfortable leave him
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    It's not 'abnormal', but it is longer than average.

    There are two aspects to size: length and width. If he is 'long and thin' you may in fact find it easier than a 'short and fat' one.

    If you are in control of how much goes in, how far and how fast then - with that lube - you should be fine.
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    Do it slowly and in your own time until you both feel comfortable to move quicker. don't leave him cos his is a little bigger, just do it in your own time. hope this helps
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    If u are afraid leave him.

    8" is not abnormal
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    If you're wet enough, comfortable enough, and he is gentle enough... it shouldn't really hurt at all. Might be discomfort, but pain should be minimal. Maybe a bit of blood but nothing too awful.
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    It does hurt for most girls the first time, especially if he's big. You need to make sure you do other sexual stuff before losing your virginity & make sure you're aroused enough. Foreplay is key.
 
 
 
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