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    I feel as if i can't socialize properly therefore i can't make permanent friends and i am starting to feel really lonely, anyone got any advice?
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    There are some people who you will never fit with because your personality and theirs are completely different however people you feel comfortable talking to are people you tend to hang around with. I know it's real hard and you might spend a few more days alone but just be confident with yourself, keep yourself busy and you will make friends! Talk to people who are from your class especially! I have friends but if they do not acknoledge my presence I do not ackowledge them , I dont like seeming desperate.
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    I have similar issues caused by anxiety and whatnot, and honestly i find that the easiest way to do it, is to just put yourself out there and talk to people, even though it sounds like its really hard heh
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    Embrace the hermitude. That's what I do.
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    I feel as if i can't socialize properly therefore i can't make permanent friends and i am starting to feel really lonely, anyone got any advice?
    Me too.
    You're not the only one
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    I feel as if i can't socialize properly therefore i can't make permanent friends and i am starting to feel really lonely, anyone got any advice?
    I cut my friends out of my life because they take all my energy and so tiring to maintain as an extrovert with wayy to many friends it's all fake really you only need 2 max real ones who know you inside out but frankly they're sickening
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    Definitely not...my very poor coping method has been paradoxically to avoid people more, as there is comfort, albeit unhappy comfort, in the loneliness inherent with solitude, but being alone and around people is much more depressing. It's probably not a strategy I would recommend.
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    I know the feeling.
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    pay for some friendz
    been there done that :lol:
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    I feel as if i can't socialize properly therefore i can't make permanent friends and i am starting to feel really lonely, anyone got any advice?
    yes
    stay on ya one
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    Me too.
    You're not the only one
    same here
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    Walk down to the local lab, purchase some of the finest E in stock.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I feel as if i can't socialize properly therefore i can't make permanent friends and i am starting to feel really lonely, anyone got any advice?
    Not at all, a lot of people have this problem. Try to talk to more people.
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    r u serious
    yups if only u knew... :lol:
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    obvz havent been on tsr long enough
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    There are some people who you will never fit with because your personality and theirs are completely different however people you feel comfortable talking to are people you tend to hang around with. I know it's real hard and you might spend a few more days alone but just be confident with yourself, keep yourself busy and you will make friends! Talk to people who are from your class especially! I have friends but if they do not acknoledge my presence I do not ackowledge them , I dont like seeming desperate.
    Thank you very much
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    Me too.
    You're not the only one

    you shouldn't feel like that, message me if you want to talk
 
 
 
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