Hi,
I'm currently in my first year at uni, and many people have started to sort out their groups and houses for next year.
I am really torn. Some of the flatmates I have lived with this year have asked me to live with them, and I get on with them well but they are much more of the 'clubbing' type than me, are very loud and sometimes annoying, and I'm not usually up for this. However, if I go with these guys, I have to leave my other flatmate behind, as they don't get on with other. But this other flatmate wants me to live with her next year, as she doesn't have anyone else, but we don't have a group of people to live with. I get on with this girl quite well, there are times when she really grates on me, but I don't really know what to do.
Help!!
x
Turn on thread page Beta
-
- 1
- 14-11-2015 12:12
-
Moonstruck16
- Follow
- 72 followers
- 3 badges
- Send a private message to Moonstruck16
Offline3ReputationRep:- Follow
- 2
- 14-11-2015 12:48
Are you in London or out of London for uni?
Also, living with just one other person isn't that bad.
Posted from TSR Mobile -
- Follow
- 3
- 14-11-2015 13:24
Go with your instincts. I would choose who ever you are most like minded with and always avoid sharing a house with anyone you fancy the pants off.
-
- Follow
- 4
- 14-11-2015 13:29
It's really early to be choosing housing, you have only known these people for about a month. Just pick who you prefer living with, sounds like its the second person.
-
- 5
- 15-11-2015 01:02
(Original post by Anonymous)
Hi,
I'm currently in my first year at uni, and many people have started to sort out their groups and houses for next year.
I am really torn. Some of the flatmates I have lived with this year have asked me to live with them, and I get on with them well but they are much more of the 'clubbing' type than me, are very loud and sometimes annoying, and I'm not usually up for this. However, if I go with these guys, I have to leave my other flatmate behind, as they don't get on with other. But this other flatmate wants me to live with her next year, as she doesn't have anyone else, but we don't have a group of people to live with. I get on with this girl quite well, there are times when she really grates on me, but I don't really know what to do.
Help!! -
SophieSmall
- Follow
- 144 followers
- 21 badges
- Send a private message to SophieSmall
Offline21ReputationRep:- Follow
- 6
- 15-11-2015 02:19
(Original post by Jenx301)
It's really early to be choosing housing, you have only known these people for about a month. Just pick who you prefer living with, sounds like its the second person.
At OP do whichever you think is best for you. I know we're taught not to be selfish in our decisions but don't move in with someone just for them or if you think it'll make you at all unhappy or miserable. I made that mistake in first year and it was awful.
Reply
Submit reply
Turn on thread page Beta
TSR Support Team
We have a brilliant team of more than 60 Support Team members looking after discussions on The Student Room, helping to make it a fun, safe and useful place to hang out.
This forum is supported by:
Updated: November 15, 2015
Share this discussion:
Tweet