Maybe I'm being clingy, but I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend with my year and a half, so I'm not sure if that's the case.
She does a lot of drama and I've been fine with it mostly, but the past few months I lost quite a few of my friends and I feel like she hasn't been there enough for me. This all sounds hopelessly selfish in a way but now I feel like she would rather spend time with her drama group, and that this downward spiral of me feeling bad about myself makes her want to spend even less time with me.
The worst thing is that I think she oblivious to how I feel...
Or does the problem lie elsewhere?
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Am I expecting too much of my girlfriend's time? watch
- Thread Starter
- 14-11-2015 11:06
- 14-11-2015 11:10
Plot twist: She is having an affair with one of your friends.
- 14-11-2015 12:04
As a girlfriend (and a long term one at that) she should definitely be supporting you and trying to spend time with you. Sit down with her and explain how you feel, it might be that she doesn't realise quite how bad things are for you right now. If she knows and doesn't care, then you should probably think about whether or not you want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't care when you're going through a hard time