I think that the entire point of the sex positive feminism movement is that women can be sexual creatures, and be confident in their sexuality, but it's not always for the benefit of men. That's really why it started, because the sexualisation of women was always treated as something that had to be appreciated by men, not simply as a means of women being confident in themselves. In regards to how this leads to the portrayal of women as sex objects in the media, tbh, I don't think that's our fault, so much as the media's fault for intentionally misconstruing our message. As I said before, it's not always about pleasing men, but the media will convey that message because that's what sells; those are the social norms that we have become accustomed to, that women, as sexual objects, can only be enjoyed by men. This movement aims to break down that ideology. That's my understanding, anyway.