Girls: Could you date a guy that won't have sex with you?

If a guy didn't enjoy sex (either penetrative, or giving and receiving oral) would you be able to have a relationship with him?

Thinking more long term, would you be able to marry him (assuming that if you wanted kids it would be done without having sex) ?

Otherwise he is a normal loving guy, that provides and takes car for you?

Basically, how important is sex?

To me its not that important. I'm not a girl who currently has any ideas about marriage or kids hence I've voted for being in a relationship with the guy only.

If he was a nice guy who looked after me and was sometimes spontaneous that would be enough for me.

If a guy didn't enjoy sex full stop (either penetrative, or giving and receiving oral) would you be able to have a relationship with him?

Thinking more long term, would you be able to marry him (assuming that if you wanted kids it would be done without having sex) ?

Otherwise he is a normal loving guy, that provides and takes car for you?

Basically, how important is sex?

How do you mean by spontaneous?

I don't know, just maybe if he knows one night I'm free he invites me out to dinner at a nice resturaunt or we go for a walk in the countryside one sunny afternoon. I wouldn't expect it often- but on occasions its sometimes nice to be surprised like that, or at least I'd imagine it would be.

Oh that goes without saying

And you would be ok with having zero sex life in a relationship?

Hell yeah! As long as the guy is okay with hugs and kisses ( a little romance doesn't hurt ), I'd totally be okay with it!

Before marriage, yeh that would be great, and I could definitely love someone without having a sexual relationship

If we were to get married, provided the guy *could* do it, I would probably want to have children naturally.

One thing that confuses me is why would you be in a relationship with someone you thought didn't have potential to be your future husband? What's the point in being in a relationship with a guy you didn't want to marry (excluding the relationships where people just want to have sex). I'm assuming that the girl knows the guy doesn't want to have sex before she gets in a relationship with him. Unless she just wants a relationship where she can get hugs and kisses but wants children when she gets married.

Anyway I voted 'I could happily marry them', I think it would be nice to have someone you can fully trust knowing that they don't just want you for sex.

Which kind of guy doesn't like anything sexual though?

No to be honest

Asexuals

I feel quite guilty saying this, but I don't think I could do it. Firstly, I have a high sex drive and I don't think I could go without it forever. I like sex a lot - I wouldn't want to never have it ever again. I just think it's a really important part of a relationship and I'd be lying if I said it wouldn't be a deal breaker