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How come I still like her after 5 years?

I still like her after 5 years even though we haven't spoken for over a year now...
what are you waiting for?! go talk to her and make her yours. :biggrin:
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Original post by samina_ay
what are you waiting for?! go talk to her and make her yours. :biggrin:


I don't know what I'm supposed to do since we've not spoken for over a year... won't she be mad?
Like who? Was she a friend? An ex?
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I don't know what I'm supposed to do since we've not spoken for over a year... won't she be mad?


why would she be mad? did you previously have a relationship with her?
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Original post by phunky_fresh
Like who? Was she a friend? An ex?



Definitely more than just a friend, but not an ex either.

We had a very strong "fling" of sorts. We slept together and did almost everything people in relationships would usually do, but we never made it official.

I heard a lot about how she felt from her closest friend too, some of it really freaking me out...
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Original post by samina_ay
why would she be mad? did you previously have a relationship with her?


Well purely down to the fact we haven't spoken and that I might have blocked her out of my life and stuff.
Seriously, OP, you're not giving us much to go on here.

What is the backstory? You murdered her entire family, then went on the run for a year and now want to get back in her good books? You stared longingly at her for four years, plucked up the courage to ask her what the time was and haven't seen her since?

My advice in this situation would usually be to tell her how you feel, that you regret not talking to her for so long, and ask her for forgiveness.

If, however, she is in a relationship, then you should respect that and accept that you missed your chance.

Without more info, I can't give better advice...
Ah, now I see your other posts....

Okay, well if you don't ask, you don't get.

Apologise profusely, tell her you were immature and that you didn't realise how special your relationship was, tell her that you understand if she doesn't want to know, but ask her to give you another chance.

And then, most importantly, tell us how it all goes - I hate it when OPs don't give us updates....
Original post by Anonymous
Definitely more than just a friend, but not an ex either.

We had a very strong "fling" of sorts. We slept together and did almost everything people in relationships would usually do, but we never made it official.

I heard a lot about how she felt from her closest friend too, some of it really freaking me out...


Elaborate on the last bit. Was she hurt you never made things official? If that's the case apologise and tell her you made a mistake
TS you sound like a jerk. Hopefully she has moved on.
Original post by hamlet&omelette
TS you sound like a jerk. Hopefully she has moved on.


:lol: how I ironic.
Wait until you hit 35 like me and you will realize that life ain't about having sex with escorts and snorting cocaine but It is about spending quality time with your wife while she makes you food.
I'd go for it. You only live once. You'll regret not trying more than trying and failing.


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