I used to watch straight porn and Id get off to it easily and then I came across gay porn and now straight porn just doesn't cut it for me anymore and I find it difficult to keep an erection unless I'm having a gay fantasy or watching gay porn, now yes I understand this screams 'GAY', but not all my fantasies involve men and there is no emotional or romantic element to my fantasies with men but with women there is? I do not get attracted to men in real life and even though I can acknowledge when a man is attractive the thought of doing anything sexual with them doesn't cross my mind. Anther point to make is when I don't have any visual stimulus and I'm just fantasising on my own I always veer off to heterosexual fantasies, though without visual stimulus it's difficult to keep an erection whatsoever. I have only ever had crushes on girls and there's one girl I like at the moment or at least think I do and whenever I see her in the street I'm instantly in a better mood and my heart rate increases around her etc. I understand im probably not 100% straight but I truly do not feel emotional/romantic or even physical attraction to men at all I only really focus on the c*** on a man in my fantasy there is no sensual/love making element there it is 100% sexual and sexual only. My main worry here is when/if I get a GF in the future im scared to death I won't be able to get hard even though I do feel genuine attraction to women and want to have sex with them? Could it be porn has messed with me and I need a sexual 'reboot' and lay off porn for a while? I am a virgin and have never had any sexual contact with a woman besides kissing (which I do find arousing) so I can't really predict how my 'equipment' will react when I'm faced with the possibility of actual sex. In clubs and when I'm out with friends im never noticing men and I always notice the girls and when I've pulled girls there has always been 'movement' down there shall we say. I have no desire to ever have any actual sexual contact with a man as it does not appeal to me in real life yet in fantasy I find it really hot. like I said it's got to the point now where I can hardly keep an erection at all without visual stimulus and with visual stimulus I can only keep it to homosexual content? I do not like the thought of all the romantic side of things with men such as kissing/cuddling/sleeping next to each other at night etc this seems to be a purely sexual fantasy yet I really want those romantic types of things with a woman? I do feel sexually attracted towards women I see and know and I genuinly do feel somewhat horny and want to f*** them but my p***s seems like it's trying to tell me otherwise. I have never seen a man in real life and thought 'yeah Id love to f*** him'. I know some people might say 'be open to a relationship with a man' but ive had a good long think about it these past few weeks and I really don't think I ever could. That's not a social view talking either as I thought about if me and another man were the last living people on the planet with no one to comment or judge on it, could I have a relationship/sex with them if I found them attractive and the answer is a strong no. So as you can see I'm hugely confused here and in need of some outsider advice/input haha. By the way I don't care about labels either, I am what I am and I don't ever intend to label myself as I will just go with the flow and how I feel at that time; the problem is that I really don't know what I am or how I feel! Any input would be greatly appreciated.