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KirstyBishop
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So, I am 15 and currently attend an all girls school (year 11). However, I am planning on going to a mixed college next year. The problem is, I cannot talk to guys for the life of me, which sounds utterly ridiculous, I know. I am just so scared that they won't like me or that they'll find me too weird ahaha

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Stop being nervous, their is nothing wrong with you.

An exercise is go to the shopping centre and walk side by side by guys with no intention of talking to them, this will give you practice and reference points so you can mitigate your nervousness.

Just say hello, smile, with a conversation about anything. I love kind, friendly people, I'm sure many others will.

And remember, lots of people are nervous around other people, not just you.

Good luck
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(Original post by Drax101)
Stop being nervous, their is nothing wrong with you.

An exercise is go to the shopping centre and walk side by side by guys with no intention of talking to them, this will give you practice and reference points so you can mitigate your nervousness.

And remember, lots of people are nervous around other people, not just you.

Good luck
Thank you; I will try this
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Thank you; I will try this
Your welcome.

Remember, people are in their own world, no one is going to make a judgement of you. People are worried about their own lives
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Can't fool the city they know whats up, is that a world tour or your girls tour? Trigger fingers turn to twitter fingers.
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No im sorry was listening to drake your be fine dw your young, if not your just have loads of confidence after you start drinking!
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Us guys won't bite unless you ask us to...
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lol i went to an all girls school too
i'm now in year 13
i haven't FULLY moved but I go to another 6th form twice a week (mixed) for one of my subjects
it's really not that bad
it's awkward at first but you get used to it

i know many people who went to mixed 6th forms after leaving our school and they LOVE IT

it's fine boys aren't that scary X'D
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lol i went to an all girls school too
i'm now in year 13
i haven't FULLY moved but I go to another 6th form twice a week (mixed) for one of my subjects
it's really not that bad
it's awkward at first but you get used to it

i know many people who went to mixed 6th forms after leaving our school and they LOVE IT

it's fine boys aren't that scary X'D
Thank you!
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(Original post by KirstyBishop)
So, I am 15 and currently attend an all girls school (year 11). However, I am planning on going to a mixed college next year. The problem is, I cannot talk to guys for the life of me, which sounds utterly ridiculous, I know. I am just so scared that they won't like me or that they'll find me too weird ahaha

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If it's really your pic, don't worry, guys will do all the talking. You just have to laugh at their jokes.
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If it's really your pic, don't worry, guys will do all the talking. You just have to laugh at their jokes.
Yes it is ahaha thank you
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Can't fool the city they know whats up, is that a world tour or your girls tour? Trigger fingers turn to twitter fingers.
This ain't what she meant when she told you to open up mooooore
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(Original post by KirstyBishop)
So, I am 15 and currently attend an all girls school (year 11). However, I am planning on going to a mixed college next year. The problem is, I cannot talk to guys for the life of me, which sounds utterly ridiculous, I know. I am just so scared that they won't like me or that they'll find me too weird ahaha

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There's nothing to do but become more confindant by talking to them. I myself have trouble talking to girls but it isn't going to get easier. I'm sure they'll like you. Besides, the weirdess people are aleays the best

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(Original post by KirstyBishop)
So, I am 15 and currently attend an all girls school (year 11). However, I am planning on going to a mixed college next year. The problem is, I cannot talk to guys for the life of me, which sounds utterly ridiculous, I know. I am just so scared that they won't like me or that they'll find me too weird ahaha

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Practice man, everyone's **** at something when they start out. Don't put guys on a pedestal Just relax and don't try too hard .
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There's nothing to do but become more confindant by talking to them. I myself have trouble talking to girls but it isn't going to get easier. I'm sure they'll like you. Besides, the weirdess people are aleays the best

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This ain't what she meant when she told you to open up mooooore
Shout to all boss *****es wifin' n*ggas make sure you hit him with the prenup, Damn tell that man to ease up
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Shout to all boss *****es wifin' n*ggas make sure you hit him with the prenup, Damn tell that man to ease up
I don't wanna hear about this ever agaaaain, not even when she tell them that they better as friends
Not even when you sayin' "drizzy tell me again"

Tune fam
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I don't wanna hear about this ever agaaaain, not even when she tell them that they better as friends
Not even when you sayin' "drizzy tell me again"

Tune fam
I been puttin' on a show, it was a sell out event
Oh, you need better seatin'

I didn't wanna do it, gave me every reason
The point I'm tryna make is I don't ever need 'em
Seen what you’d do for fame, what would you do for freedom?
Trust b
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I don't wanna hear about this ever agaaaain
^ me after i end our beef by beating u at backgammon
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Tbh I did think he could get any better after charged up
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