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K_Kaur.x
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Hey people!

I have been getting to know a guy since June. He's 23 and I am 25. We met online and decided to meet after a year. He hasn't properly opened up to me yet but things have been going really well between us, we get along really well and he invited him to his friends party a few weeks ago which was lovely! We were texting each other earlier and we were talking about people sharing their partners. I was generally saying I don't think I could share the person I liked with someone else - this is how the conversation went

Him: Is that your way of telling me you like me?
Me: You already know?
Him: I don t know, I don t know what s going on. I know you felt that way.
Me: You sound confused? I'm going to take a step back
Him: It's not that
Me: Well what's wrong? Did I say something?
Him: I don t know what to say. You know I feel some way about you too. I don't know, we'll speak on it when I see you. It's not easy over text.
Me: What s their to talk about? If there's someone else or I ve said something wrong just say, it's completely fine.
Him: There is no-one else. There s only you.
Me: So why do I get the feeling you need to tell me something?

I would really appreciate a guys perspective here..
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Kevin De Bruyne
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(Original post by K_Kaur.x)
Hey people!

I have been getting to know a guy since June. He's 23 and I am 25. We met online and decided to meet after a year. He hasn't properly opened up to me yet but things have been going really well between us, we get along really well and he invited him to his friends party a few weeks ago which was lovely! We were texting each other earlier and we were talking about people sharing their partners. I was generally saying I don't think I could share the person I liked with someone else - this is how the conversation went

Him: Is that your way of telling me you like me?
Me: You already know?
Him: I don t know, I don t know what s going on. I know you felt that way.
Me: You sound confused? I'm going to take a step back
Him: It's not that
Me: Well what's wrong? Did I say something?
Him: I don t know what to say. You know I feel some way about you too. I don't know, we'll speak on it when I see you. It's not easy over text.
Me: What s their to talk about? If there's someone else or I ve said something wrong just say, it's completely fine.
Him: There is no-one else. There s only you.
Me: So why do I get the feeling you need to tell me something?

I would really appreciate a guys perspective here..
It is confusing, yes, but I don't think that it's worth reading into too much, maybe after he talks about it if he even brings it up.
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Maybe he wants to be with you , maybe he doesn't . You should take things super slow with him and not get physical until you know each other much better
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I don't think he's hiding something and has something to tell you as such. Don't read too much into it. I think he might just wants to talk to you how much he likes you or similar.
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(Original post by sunnydespair)
Maybe he wants to be with you , maybe he doesn't . You should take things super slow with him and not get physical until you know each other much better
Thank you. I absolutely agree.. he's very respectful in that sense.
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