I shouldnt smile at boys?!!! Watch
What? Im just trying to be nice, I dont know what to think because I have SEVERE social anxiety as it is and didnt think smiling at people was deemed to be socially unacceptable, and I certainly didnt know boys thought girls who smiled at them fancied them- Im really confused.
It's not socially unacceptable. Not sure why your friend is saying that they will think you are a slut but if you do smile when you look at someone then they will assume that you like them.
I think it's perfectly fine. I always smile at them it's just about being friendly and polite nothing to do with fancying them. I also have bad social anxiety don't think there's anything wrong with smiling at guys it's all about your intentions. I only aim to be friendly when I smile at men.
You say 'if you do smille when you look at someone then they will assume you like them.' Huh? I have to look at them to smile at them- its not like a big grinny smile its just normal one which is like a 'hello' without words. I dont know what you mean..
I find if I actually fancy a guy it's more difficult to smile due to feeling a little awkward in his company. Really fancied a guy I was at work with but he's two years younger than me he's one of the loveliest people I've ever met. One time I cried in front of him when it was just me and him in the room and he was soo sweet.
So just ignore guys altogether and only smile at the one you like? Then why am I allowed to smile at my girl friends without them thinking I want to get into their pants?
You can smile at them, wink at them, flash them and then tell them to **** off.
Oh my gosh I am exactly the same! If I really like someone I will do anything to avoid them, and it would appears that I hate them haha. Awwe thats so sweet, he seems really nice- you smile at him girl! <3x
Ok so imagine you started a new job- I dont know if your a guy or a girl but would you smile at your colleagues who are the opposite gender to you? Or would you just completely ignore them because you dont want them to think you're flirting?
No. The thing about smiling at someone is that you are giving positive attention to them. If they don't know you then there are going to be few reasons for them to think about why you are smiling at them. Also not even referring to getting into their pants. Well reason why is because boys will jump the gun a lot and think that, also majority of people are not homosexual so aren't going to assume that (yes I know what I am saying sounds stupid, hard to explain).