Mixed signals from a girl in a shop I work in? Watch

Anonymous #1
#1
Report Thread starter 3 years ago
#1
There's a girl who's recently moved to the area of the shop where I work. She's really chatty, always says hello to me as soon as she walks in, has the odd "bit of banter" with me (I hate that phrase, but you catch my drift). when I ask her stuff about herself she always answers questions openly and doesn't act dismissive or like she's uncomfortable, and she initiates conversation with me when she comes to the till, even if it's usually "it's so cold outside!"

However, I have a thing about paying attention to girls' body language when I interact with them, and one thing I've noticed is that she doesn't make much eye contact with me when she speaks, although this is usually when she's sorting her purse out. The other night I was having a little chat with her, and she seemed normal, again chatty as per, but her body was pointed towards the door. She doesn't play with her hair all the time, although she does occasionally stroke little strands. There was another point the other night where she momentarily placed her fingertips on the top of her head when talking to me.

Thoughts?
0
reply
username2298253
Badges: 11
Rep:
?
#2
Report 3 years ago
#2
Looks good, nice attention to detail but don't overthink it!
0
reply
Anonymous #2
#3
Report 3 years ago
#3
Don't mistake her friendship/kindness for affection. Just because she speaks to you shouldn't be the signal she likes you in that way.

If the "banter" is flirty and you talk about going out after work (even in a group) for a drink or whatever then that could be a clue...
0
reply
Anonymous #1
#4
Report Thread starter 3 years ago
#4
(Original post by Anonymous)
Don't mistake her friendship/kindness for affection. Just because she speaks to you shouldn't be the signal she likes you in that way.

If the "banter" is flirty and you talk about going out after work (even in a group) for a drink or whatever then that could be a clue...
She's only been coming in the past two weeks or so, but there was this one ex

"It's horrible, the weather outside."
"Yep, and you've got another four months of this cold, dark misery."
"Oh yeah, well thanks for telling me!" she said with a teasing smile on her face

A pretty mundane topic of course, but that's a sort of idea of our "banter" (eurgh!)
0
reply
X

Quick Reply

Attached files
Write a reply...
Reply
new posts
Back
to top
Latest
My Feed

See more of what you like on
The Student Room

You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

Personalise

Have you made up your mind on your five uni choices? (November update)

Yes I know where I'm applying (216)
70.59%
No I haven't decided yet (57)
18.63%
Yes but I might change my mind (33)
10.78%

Watched Threads

View All