I'm straight but I kinda have a lesbian crush atm

I didn't realise it until my ex (well, I'm sort of seeing him anyway) was at my house last night and was looking at my diary, and I had stuck pictures of this girl on it...

How embarrassing! :eek:

Btw I used to be known in high school for stalking the popular, attractive guys I didn't have a chance in hell with, but now it's changed :p:

Now it's like, I'm doing this to girls lol. What is wrong with me :frown:

Reply 1

Dude

14

Nothing is wrong with you, you are just discovering that you are bi, thats all

Reply 2

TheThirdMan

1

You're bisexual?

It seems quite a lot of girls are, specially with liking noncy looking italian blokes who basically look like women anyway :smile:

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Reply 3

Pseudomuse

1

there nothing wrong, your just coming in touch with some same sex attraction. i mean you might be bi-curious, you might be bisexual, but theres nothing to be embarrised about :smile:

Reply 4

Jimmy_Wong

I think bi-curious would be the best description, but only you will know if you are or not. I'm straight but I still like to grab guys arses and get-off with gay guys as opposed to girls sometimes, but I would never have a relationship with a guy, it just depends on how you're feeling at the moment. :wink:

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

OP

Thank you Phoenix :smile:

What is the difference btw bi-curious and bi-sexual?

I don't wanna make out with the girl, but I love looking at her (and other girls :redface:

).

Reply 6

Vohamanah

16

There's nowt wrong with that at all. I'm sure a lot of girls have had a similar experience (C'mon, own up girls, I know I have, and I'm straight...)

Doesn't make you bi in my opinion, maybe just appreciative of beauty, regardless of gender.

Reply 7

Dude

14

Anonymous

Thank you Phoenix :smile:

What is the difference btw bi-curious and bi-sexual?

I don't wanna make out with the girl, but I love looking at her (and other girls :redface:

).

Bi-curious means that you are just experimenting with your sexuallity at the moment where bi-sexual means that you known you like the two sexes and are having sex with both of them (if that makes sense).

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

OP

pinkpinkuk

There's nowt wrong with that at all. I'm sure a lot of girls have had a similar experience (C'mon, own up girls, I know I have, and I'm straight...)

Doesn't make you bi in my opinion, maybe just appreciative of beauty, regardless of gender.

Thanks, coz my ex reckons I'm a freak and need mental help :rolleyes:

He was like 'oh you're soo weird! You need psychiatric help' but he's a meanie, and is nasty to one of my mates who is gay.

Reply 9

The Little Mermaid

Anonymous

Thanks, coz my ex reckons I'm a freak and need mental help :rolleyes:

He was like 'oh you're soo weird! You need psychiatric help' but he's a meanie, and is nasty to one of my mates who is gay.

LOL. Sorry, I had to laugh. I think your ex is feeling a bit emmasculated. Take it this way. He wasn't good enough for you, but this girl in the picture sure was. Probably gave his pride a knock.

Re: the girl. You could just have a girl crush! You know, when you look at another female and think, "wow, she's so pretty. Just look at her hair and those eyes!" Kind of like admiration. On the flip side, you could just be attracted to her. If you are, though, and ever make a move on it? Do it infront of your ex. You deserve a giggle for putting up with his machismo :rolleyes:

Reply 10

silverbolt

19

you might not be bi it hsppens with most teens to develop casual homosexual feelings at some point, it does happen if you are straight they will pass

Reply 11

ßlαcksωαn

17

pinkpinkuk

There's nowt wrong with that at all. I'm sure a lot of girls have had a similar experience (C'mon, own up girls, I know I have, and I'm straight...)

I have! and I'm straight. I don't think there is anything wrong with thinking someone has the looks, regardless of their sex.

Anonymous

Thanks, coz my ex reckons I'm a freak and need mental help :rolleyes:

He was like 'oh you're soo weird! You need psychiatric help' but he's a meanie, and is nasty to one of my mates who is gay.

Tell your bf he needs the psychiatrist if the whole idea of a threesome with 2 girl doesn't turn him on :p:

Reply 12

Lindsayy

2

Maybe you idolise them? Whenever I'm out I love to look at people. When I look at girls its often that I'm jealous of them rather than I'm checking them out sexually.
I suppose it depends what you think of these girls, is it sexual? Are you jealous? Do you admire them?

Reply 13

Freckles

12

I really don't think there's anything wrong with you at all. I have had girl-crushes on people ever since I remember, mostly actresses, but there have been real people as well and it's never been truly sexual. I mean, it's always only been in my head anyway, but it's always been more about affection and maybe hugs or sleeping in the same bed and just general closeness, but not about making out with them. I don't know what it is. I call it my big-sister-complex and it does worry me sometimes, because I've always had it and it does take up most of my spare time to think about them, but then again, I guess things could be a lot worse and I could have more disturbing problems...

Reply 14

Cthulhufiend

You might be bisexual, but I think it's quite common for teenage girls to have crushes on other girls. I thought I was bisexual for a couple of years but I don't think I am anymore. Could just be a phase, but it doesn't matter if it isn't. There's nothing wrong with it!

Reply 15

Vohamanah

16

blackswan

I have! and I'm straight. I don't think there is anything wrong with thinking someone has the looks, regardless of their sex.

Very true. There's nothing wrong with thinking a girl is hot. Edit: Kou Shibasaki - see my avatar. She so pretty.

And Freckles I think your big-sister complex is cute :biggrin:

Reply 16

lovers in japan

2

Cthulhufiend

You might be bisexual, but I think it's quite common for teenage girls to have crushes on other girls. I thought I was bisexual for a couple of years but I don't think I am anymore. Could just be a phase, but it doesn't matter if it isn't. There's nothing wrong with it!

that...

everyone questions their sexuality at one point in time or another. Just see what happens in the future... if you want to look at girls, then continue; if you go off that, then that's fine too :smile:

Reply 17

Anonymous #2

pinkpinkuk

There's nowt wrong with that at all. I'm sure a lot of girls have had a similar experience (C'mon, own up girls, I know I have, and I'm straight...)

Doesn't make you bi in my opinion, maybe just appreciative of beauty, regardless of gender.

I agree

Reply 18

Vohamanah

16

Anonymous

I agree

Why anon then? :confused:

Reply 19

Freckles

12

pinkpinkuk

Very true. There's nothing wrong with thinking a girl is hot. Edit: Kou Shibasaki - see my avatar. She so pretty.

And Freckles I think your big-sister complex is cute :biggrin:

Aww, thank you, that really made me smile lol
I'm known among all my friends for it and they've all accepted it and find it cute or funny as well, but basically it's just me. It is sort of weird, but I really wouldn't be me without obsessing over these women, something would so be missing lol In fact, I'm thinking about them right now. Maybe I should be worried after alll :p:

Edit: Oh, and I dunno who the girl in your avatar is, but my current big sister is Evangeline Lilly from LOST lol And Jorja Fox actually, I can't make up my mind :p:

Gee, I am pretty sad!

I'm straight but I kinda have a lesbian crush atm

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