Relationship advice asap?Watch
If shes moving on already ur better off looking after yourself and moving on. But on the other hand if shes the one going there is a million times better than a call or a text
I just want her to know I still care, or if she wonders about me/knows that I'm near. Because if she's seeing someone else it might seem a bit weird but she said she's not.
Just don't know if it'll do more good to go up there.
How do I do this when she won't talk to me? She still wants to be friends
Stop obsessing over her, stop trying to talk to her and go and spend time with people who actually like you and actually want to talk to you. Keep yourself busy and do things you enjoy, or at the very least avoid things that make you think of her it'll help you move on. It's unlikely you'll ever be able to be friends with this girl again without it causing you pain and preventing you from moving on.
Me and my ex were together many years, we split and she's talking to someone else I think. She lives far away, would it be a good or bad idea, to go up and spend a few days in a hotel in her hometown so she knows that I'm not giving up on her and still want her back? Show her I care and maybe she will worry about me like I do her?
You should move on too and good luck !