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Don't want to go back to university
Just before Easter I was having a few personal problems, mostly to do with the fact that me & guy friend were sleeping together and then he decided to tell me he doesn't like me like that. It really made me feel like I wasn't good enough and that i'm ugly because he made me promise not to tell his friends like he was really ashamed of it or something. Since then I've been having some really big self-esteem problems and wondering if he thinks i'm really ugly when he looks at me and what his friends have been saying about me behind my back... they obviously give him **** because they found out we got together one time.
i just dont know what to do because i have to see him on sunday, i have no idea how im going to act and how to be confident. when i see him im going to feel like crying because i still think about him all the time and feel so crushed by the fact that he doesnt think im good enough for him.
i just dont know what to do because i have to see him on sunday, i have no idea how im going to act and how to be confident. when i see him im going to feel like crying because i still think about him all the time and feel so crushed by the fact that he doesnt think im good enough for him.
Reply 4
-Zach-
I agree with others.. no man is worth ur tears, if someone is .. he will never make u cry..
I know ur going through a VERY hard time.. I guess on sunday, just be normal but more like ur ignoring him and as if hes nothing and he is ugly
I know ur going through a VERY hard time.. I guess on sunday, just be normal but more like ur ignoring him and as if hes nothing and he is ugly
like my sig says!Seriously stuff him. Don't let some ******* of a guy stop you from going to uni. Just avoid him as much as possible. It doesn't matter how you look, guys will screw anything and the fact that he's mates have judged you is just ridiculus and rude. Maybe he hasn't even told them though...anyway forget about him..he's just another useless guy in this world.
Reply 5
What an idiot. I'm so sorry you're have had to go through this. Just imagine this had happened to one of your friends and she's just told you the story you posted. What would you advise her? Then do the same thing. Good luck on Sunday, I'm sure it won't be anywhere near as bad as you think, he's seriously not worth your time and it won't be too long before you realise that and stop worrying about him
Reply 6
Just keep your head held high and you'll be able to get through this.
Reply 7
Get a group of your girly friends drunk and all start talking about sex. Tell them that a "certain person" had some weird sexual issues, and I bet he never gets laid again.
Don't get mad get even.
Don't let him destroy you. He's sounds like a complete tosspot
Don't get mad get even.
Don't let him destroy you. He's sounds like a complete tosspot
Reply 8
I'm in exactly the same boat except i have to face the guy this afternoon for the 1st time since coming back to uni after easter 
I think i'm nervous because it's been made into a big deal in my head but really it's not... i've developed an attitude and he is NOT going to get to me this term...
I know it feels crappy.. it's rejection but what a ****ty person he is.. he obviously is really immature and doesn't care about human emotions.
You are well shot... concentrate on other aspects of uni, throw yourself into your exams and get good grades, go out with mates, make the most of it and completely avoid that tosser!
xxx
I think i'm nervous because it's been made into a big deal in my head but really it's not... i've developed an attitude and he is NOT going to get to me this term...
I know it feels crappy.. it's rejection but what a ****ty person he is.. he obviously is really immature and doesn't care about human emotions.
You are well shot... concentrate on other aspects of uni, throw yourself into your exams and get good grades, go out with mates, make the most of it and completely avoid that tosser!
xxx
Reply 9
you shouldn't let it affect your self esteem. and he didn't say you weren't good enough so don't go thinking you're ugly or anything. it's possible that he just doesn't wanna ruin your friendship or something. or he has issues so he's not ready for a girlfriend at the moment.
Reply 10
tell him to step down and to treat you with some respect.
Firstly i think everyone thats knocking this guy needs to shutup. He hasnt done anything wrong and certainly dosent deserve the abuse some of you are aiming at him.
Its not his fault if he's mates give him grief about a girl he got with. Also remember it takes 2 to tango.. this girl isnt exactly faultless herself as she agreed to sleep with him back.
All this rubbish about 'Not good enough for him' and then all these other people saying he just isnt good enough for you... did he actually SAY you wernt good enough? I doubt it. Or did you just ASSUME that was it. Stop assuming stuff and judging this poor guy on your assumptions.
Maybe HE'S shy? And thats why he didnt want people to know? You know, if someone made a topic on here about being too shy to tell your friends you were sleeping with someone.. everyone would be really supportive on here! And yet that could well be the exact situation here and people are being really abbusive about him.
Stop taking things at face value, and dont judge someone based on pure assumptions.
Its not his fault if he's mates give him grief about a girl he got with. Also remember it takes 2 to tango.. this girl isnt exactly faultless herself as she agreed to sleep with him back.
All this rubbish about 'Not good enough for him' and then all these other people saying he just isnt good enough for you... did he actually SAY you wernt good enough? I doubt it. Or did you just ASSUME that was it. Stop assuming stuff and judging this poor guy on your assumptions.
Maybe HE'S shy? And thats why he didnt want people to know? You know, if someone made a topic on here about being too shy to tell your friends you were sleeping with someone.. everyone would be really supportive on here! And yet that could well be the exact situation here and people are being really abbusive about him.
Stop taking things at face value, and dont judge someone based on pure assumptions.
i agree with the last post and i disagree with the one who said you should get even with him.
you can't make those assumptions, remember that a lot of guys say things but don't mean it in that way.
try not to be upset or angry, understand he may have his own reasons for his actions, who knows ,he might come back begging for you, in which case you could get back at him by saying no.
if he got with you in the first place, its because he must have found you attractive, or something like that
you can't make those assumptions, remember that a lot of guys say things but don't mean it in that way.
try not to be upset or angry, understand he may have his own reasons for his actions, who knows ,he might come back begging for you, in which case you could get back at him by saying no.
if he got with you in the first place, its because he must have found you attractive, or something like that
Reply 13
nice one reue!
Reply 14
Great post Reue. Some of the female poster on here are beyond belief.
Reply 15
I don't agree. If you don't like somebody in "that" way, you shouldn't sleep with them, full stop. You can't sleep with them and THEN decide to start using that line, that's just not fair.
once again.. another assumption.
How do you know he didnt mean or say 'dont like you like that anymore'?
People change their opinions alot! Maybe he got to know her and then realised she wasnt right for him? Maybe he was doing her a huge favour letting her know exactly how he stood before she got too emotionally attached? For all we know, the guy could have perfectly innocently thought it was a **** buddy relationship and the girl thought the same?
How do you know he didnt mean or say 'dont like you like that anymore'?
People change their opinions alot! Maybe he got to know her and then realised she wasnt right for him? Maybe he was doing her a huge favour letting her know exactly how he stood before she got too emotionally attached? For all we know, the guy could have perfectly innocently thought it was a **** buddy relationship and the girl thought the same?
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