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Wanting someone to want to kiss you
Say you were with a guy and you wanted to make him feel "things" for you...and you want to make him kiss you...what does this mean? It's not necessarily you wanting him to kiss you, or you wanting to kiss him...it's rather that you want him to WANT to kiss/want you??
Like why would someone do that and what does it mean? Would this be considered a bit screwed up?
Like why would someone do that and what does it mean? Would this be considered a bit screwed up?
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Reply 2
RainbowGlitter
Say you were with a guy and you wanted to make him feel "things" for you...and you want to make him kiss you...what does this mean? It's not necessarily you wanting him to kiss you, or you wanting to kiss him...it's rather that you want him to WANT to kiss/want you??
Like why would someone do that and what does it mean? Would this be considered a bit screwed up?
Like why would someone do that and what does it mean? Would this be considered a bit screwed up?
Reply 3
I think I understand what you mean but it is a little bit about you wanting them to kiss you too IMO. Basically you want them to want to kiss you, not have them feeling they have to do it, is that what you mean? I dont think I can answer why someone would do it or what it means really but I don't think it'd be considered screwed up again IMO. I get that sometimes, I don't like people feeling they have to do anything (not just kissing or stuff like that) for me, I prefer them wanting to do whatever so I don't feel like I've pressurised them into something if that makes any sense 
Sorry that was a bit of a ramble but hopefully its useful in some way
Sorry that was a bit of a ramble but hopefully its useful in some way
Reply 4
I deleted my last post, I read what you said again and realised that I missed a sentence out when I read it the first time. My brain doesn't seem to be working today.
I think it's just wanting someone to show you some kind of affection, wanting them to pay you some attention. I don't think it's particularly screwed up, I mean, everyone likes that little bit of attention. It's like, wanting to know you are attractive in some way. You might have a partner, or you might not like the person you are with but at the same time, you wouldn't mind knowing that someone is attracted to you. It sounds kinda like that, if you know what I mean. It's not screwed up as such, some people just like the attention.
I'm not really sure if i've understood this time lol i'm extremely tired. I apologise
I think it's just wanting someone to show you some kind of affection, wanting them to pay you some attention. I don't think it's particularly screwed up, I mean, everyone likes that little bit of attention. It's like, wanting to know you are attractive in some way. You might have a partner, or you might not like the person you are with but at the same time, you wouldn't mind knowing that someone is attracted to you. It sounds kinda like that, if you know what I mean. It's not screwed up as such, some people just like the attention.
I'm not really sure if i've understood this time lol i'm extremely tired. I apologise
Reply 5
RainbowGlitter
Say you were with a guy and you wanted to make him feel "things" for you...and you want to make him kiss you...what does this mean? It's not necessarily you wanting him to kiss you, or you wanting to kiss him...it's rather that you want him to WANT to kiss/want you??
Like why would someone do that and what does it mean? Would this be considered a bit screwed up?
Like why would someone do that and what does it mean? Would this be considered a bit screwed up?
Screwed up, no, but good luck getting most people to understand it.
Reply 6
kk66380
OP
Okay I'll try and make this a bit more clearer...lol
Like say you're a girl and you're with a guy...and you're not kissing or anything...but you do things to make him WANT to kiss you..or like you want him to feel 'turned on' or something lol...hmmm
It's like you want to control him or manipulate him??
Anonymous - it's just with one guy in particular
Like say you're a girl and you're with a guy...and you're not kissing or anything...but you do things to make him WANT to kiss you..or like you want him to feel 'turned on' or something lol...hmmm
It's like you want to control him or manipulate him??
Anonymous - it's just with one guy in particular
Reply 7
RainbowGlitter
Okay I'll try and make this a bit more clearer...lol
Like say you're a girl and you're with a guy...and you're not kissing or anything...but you do things to make him WANT to kiss you..or like you want him to feel 'turned on' or something lol...hmmm
It's like you want to control him or manipulate him??
Anonymous - it's just with one guy in particular
Like say you're a girl and you're with a guy...and you're not kissing or anything...but you do things to make him WANT to kiss you..or like you want him to feel 'turned on' or something lol...hmmm
It's like you want to control him or manipulate him??
Anonymous - it's just with one guy in particular
ahhhhhhhhhhhhh! Manipulating a guy! You little rascal
In that case, I suggest just being sexy (but don't come of as a slut! ) and just being affectionate towards him.Try this (this is what my girlfriend did to me) wear some lip gloss first. Go up to your boyfriend (works best if he's lying down or sitting down) bring your face like 10 inches away from his and half open your mouth. Then bring your finger down onto his lips (which would be best if slightly glossed also). Then turn around, walk away, and DO NOT LOOK BACK. Also! Make sure what your wearing is... slightly provocative, but not revealing much. Maybe leather trousers or something of that sort.
Dead sexy, trust me
Reply 8
Are you asking if that's screwed up or how would you do it?
Reply 9
Dattebayo
ahhhhhhhhhhhhh! Manipulating a guy! You little rascal In that case, I suggest just being sexy (but don't come of as a slut! ) and just being affectionate towards him.
Try this (this is what my girlfriend did to me) wear some lip gloss first. Go up to your boyfriend (works best if he's lying down or sitting down) bring your face like 10 inches away from his and half open your mouth. Then bring your finger down onto his lips (which would be best if slightly glossed also). Then turn around, walk away, and DO NOT LOOK BACK. Also! Make sure what your wearing is... slightly provocative, but not revealing much. Maybe leather trousers or something of that sort.
Dead sexy, trust me
In that case, I suggest just being sexy (but don't come of as a slut! ) and just being affectionate towards him.Try this (this is what my girlfriend did to me) wear some lip gloss first. Go up to your boyfriend (works best if he's lying down or sitting down) bring your face like 10 inches away from his and half open your mouth. Then bring your finger down onto his lips (which would be best if slightly glossed also). Then turn around, walk away, and DO NOT LOOK BACK. Also! Make sure what your wearing is... slightly provocative, but not revealing much. Maybe leather trousers or something of that sort.
Dead sexy, trust me
Wow...that is pretty sexy actually...might keep that one up my sleeve for the summer! Sounds great for the park
Actually...the only unsexy bit is the leather trousers. In this heat, I can just imagine them squelching as you walked away...not a good look!
Reply 10
Aww thank goodness, it's starting to make sense!
You sort of take control, you take charge of the situation. You do and say things that drive them wild and make them really want you. They way you speak to them, the way you look at them, the way you move, the way you touch them or yourself (not in a dirty way of course), makes them want to do things. It's nice having that power over someone, knowing that everything you do is being observed and is getting to them more by the minute. It's lots of fun, I do it a lot to my boyfriend. I'm good at teasing him in that way, it drives him insane but I know he enjoys it really.
There is nothing wrong with it at all, it's a bit of fun really. I wouldn't do it to just anyone though of course, if it's someone that you really like then that's different from it being someone you don't know. There is a difference in doing it for the sake of doing it, and doing it because after you do it, you yourself want something to happen. It wouldn't be fair to get a guy all hot and bothered for nothing.
You sort of take control, you take charge of the situation. You do and say things that drive them wild and make them really want you. They way you speak to them, the way you look at them, the way you move, the way you touch them or yourself (not in a dirty way of course), makes them want to do things. It's nice having that power over someone, knowing that everything you do is being observed and is getting to them more by the minute. It's lots of fun, I do it a lot to my boyfriend. I'm good at teasing him in that way, it drives him insane but I know he enjoys it really.
There is nothing wrong with it at all, it's a bit of fun really. I wouldn't do it to just anyone though of course, if it's someone that you really like then that's different from it being someone you don't know. There is a difference in doing it for the sake of doing it, and doing it because after you do it, you yourself want something to happen. It wouldn't be fair to get a guy all hot and bothered for nothing.
Reply 11
kk66380
OP
Hehe glad you understand!
Well actually i'm not asking for "tips" as it were lol...'cause that is being carried out already...just whether it's right or not. AND if the guy in question has a girlfriend but still feels "stuff" when another girl does this..is that also wrong?? (This is hypothetical...)
Like is it wrong for the girl to do this to a guy who is NOT her bf but who she knows well, very well?
Actually I know it's wrong...but like is it slightly psycho...apparently it was...or one of the first steps to psycho behaviours
Well actually i'm not asking for "tips" as it were lol...'cause that is being carried out already...just whether it's right or not. AND if the guy in question has a girlfriend but still feels "stuff" when another girl does this..is that also wrong?? (This is hypothetical...)
Like is it wrong for the girl to do this to a guy who is NOT her bf but who she knows well, very well?
Actually I know it's wrong...but like is it slightly psycho...apparently it was...or one of the first steps to psycho behaviours
Reply 12
If she is attracted to this guy, wants something to happen, and he doesn't have a girlfriend then no, I don't think it's wrong. If he does have a girlfriend, it's wrong.
If she is not attracted to this guy, girlfriend or not, and doesn't want something to happen then yeah, it is wrong. It's playing with someone's feelings, leading them on slightly. Something which you shouldn't do, don't do it just for the sake of doing it.
In some respects it can be wrong, in others it isn't. I wouldn't really say it was "psycho" but if you are doing it just for the sake of it, it is a bit horrible.
If she is not attracted to this guy, girlfriend or not, and doesn't want something to happen then yeah, it is wrong. It's playing with someone's feelings, leading them on slightly. Something which you shouldn't do, don't do it just for the sake of doing it.
In some respects it can be wrong, in others it isn't. I wouldn't really say it was "psycho" but if you are doing it just for the sake of it, it is a bit horrible.
Reply 13
RainbowGlitter
Hehe glad you understand!
Well actually i'm not asking for "tips" as it were lol...'cause that is being carried out already...just whether it's right or not. AND if the guy in question has a girlfriend but still feels "stuff" when another girl does this..is that also wrong?? (This is hypothetical...)
Like is it wrong for the girl to do this to a guy who is NOT her bf but who she knows well, very well?
Actually I know it's wrong...but like is it slightly psycho...apparently it was...or one of the first steps to psycho behaviours
Well actually i'm not asking for "tips" as it were lol...'cause that is being carried out already...just whether it's right or not. AND if the guy in question has a girlfriend but still feels "stuff" when another girl does this..is that also wrong?? (This is hypothetical...)
Like is it wrong for the girl to do this to a guy who is NOT her bf but who she knows well, very well?
Actually I know it's wrong...but like is it slightly psycho...apparently it was...or one of the first steps to psycho behaviours
No, it's not "psycho".
Reply 14
RainbowGlitter
Hehe glad you understand!
Well actually i'm not asking for "tips" as it were lol...'cause that is being carried out already...just whether it's right or not. AND if the guy in question has a girlfriend but still feels "stuff" when another girl does this..is that also wrong?? (This is hypothetical...)
Like is it wrong for the girl to do this to a guy who is NOT her bf but who she knows well, very well?
Actually I know it's wrong...but like is it slightly psycho...apparently it was...or one of the first steps to psycho behaviours
Well actually i'm not asking for "tips" as it were lol...'cause that is being carried out already...just whether it's right or not. AND if the guy in question has a girlfriend but still feels "stuff" when another girl does this..is that also wrong?? (This is hypothetical...)
Like is it wrong for the girl to do this to a guy who is NOT her bf but who she knows well, very well?
Actually I know it's wrong...but like is it slightly psycho...apparently it was...or one of the first steps to psycho behaviours
Youre sweetI think its wrong if the girl knows that the guy has a girlfriend and continues to play with his feelings in that way. You can't really help the guy's behaviour... but you can control yours. However, otherwise (if they are both single and at least one likes the other) then I think it's okay...sounds like acceptable flirty behaviour...
I wouldn't go as far as to call it psychotic...
Reply 15
Well if the guy in question has a girlfriend and a girl's flirting with him and doing stuff like that to make him want to kiss her, then yeah, I'd say that's wrong - he's got a girlfriend!
As for psycho..well it just sounds a bit sly and selfish, having a partner says back off, they're mine, if you wanted a boyfriend or girlfriend to want to kiss you, even if you were close to them then it'd still be wrong, it just sounds like you want to try and break them up if that's what you're doing. (By 'you' here, I don't mean you, but it's really hard to phrase this so that it sounds right)
As for psycho..well it just sounds a bit sly and selfish, having a partner says back off, they're mine, if you wanted a boyfriend or girlfriend to want to kiss you, even if you were close to them then it'd still be wrong, it just sounds like you want to try and break them up if that's what you're doing. (By 'you' here, I don't mean you, but it's really hard to phrase this so that it sounds right
)
Reply 17
ISH
that's hot
Read the rest of the posts people, you'll see what I ACTUALLY wrote
Reply 18
Dattebayo
Read the rest of the posts people, you'll see what I ACTUALLY wrote
Read the rest of the posts people, you'll see what I ACTUALLY wrote
Reply 19
dress incredibly hot, give him a little taster like a little lick and he will be following you around everywhere, this onyl works if u r hot.
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