Hmm ... I'm confused.

Ok, so here's the deal. I have a friend, who's 15. I'm 16. He's bi, I'm straight (and female). I really like him, as in like, but I doubt he likes me in that way. We do pretend to hold hands, but it's a joke. Trouble is, I wish he would go further. Much further. He sees me as just a friend , I assume, since he acts like that around most people.

There's more. Last year, he pretended to start bum-raping me, my sister and a group of friends, thinking we all thought it was a joke, which at first we did. But in the end it got annoying so we reported it and it went to the police. (When I say that, I mean the school policeman got involved.) It all stopped after that, and he was careful about talking about sexually-related stuff.

Even after all that, I still find myself falling for im. He talks openly about sexual stuff, but i's all in a jokey way.

What do I do? Let him know who I feel? Leave it? Please help !

Sounds like a bit of an idiot to me. Bum-raping? Sounds immature too!
Do you really want a relationship who thinks it's funny to pretent to bum rape people?

I'd be wary if he is bisexual. At the risk of a barrage of complaining replies and neg rep, I would venture to say that it is often a front for homosexuality before people are ready to admit it to themselves and those around him- just my opinion (informed by having several bisexual friends). Also, no offence, but if you had reported me to the police for sexual harrassment I don't think I would be considering (or believing there was the prospect of) a relationship with either you, your sister or your friend. If you don't mind me asking, what were the circumstances of this incident? What did he make of it?