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She doesn't talk to me

This is a bit of a long story so Im trying to keep it brief. I went on a field trip two weeks ago and ended up staying in this place with a bunch of totally random people who were just staying for the week, none of whom new each other. Anyway, this girl and I got on really well, we would sit in each others room for about 3 hours a night and talk to each other, go out and get food at 10 and stuff, she'd even come to see me in the morning at 7. Now she lives about an hour away from me and when we were there we got on really well and even in the following few days we got on pretty well. However she has suddenly stopped responding to my texts/emails. She hasn't been on msn once in ages, hasn't given me a hi, by nothing and Im really confused as to what I may have done/said to make this happen. I know she may be busy but she has had time to talk to other people but not me, and I dont know what to do. Does anyone have any ideas?
Maybe she has just simply lost interest, unfortunatly people's feelings change.
1. She changed her mind/you pissed her off.
2. She has a boyf back at home and doesn't want to lead you on.
3. She went away somewhere/got hit by a bus/lost her phone etc.
Reply 3
As far as I know 2 is a definate no, 3 is a probably not, which leaves 1, which leaves me feeling like ****.
I' ve met people who I've gotten on really well with before but who live far away. At some point you just have to be honest with yourself that it's never gonna work, for me anyway I wouldn't want a long distance relationship. An hour is still an effort when you want to see someone frequently. She may have just decided that it's not gonna work, despite how well you got on.
Reply 5
But if we put this into perspective it takes me 30-45 minutes to get to school everyday, its in the opposite direction but still I could go. And its not even like we expected anything to happen, I just saw each other as friends firstly.
Reply 6
I have her myspace/hi5 info so I if I were to send her a message through there would you think Id be coming on too desperately or am I just being paranoid and she may have had other problems?
Reply 7
she probably doesn't like you any more. life is a bummer, after all.