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Dear lord no i'd go insane but maybe that's because i don't trust my bf at all. Do you trust yours?
Reply 2
Yellowmarshmellow
Dear lord no i'd go insane but maybe that's because i don't trust my bf at all. Do you trust yours?


How can you be in a relationship where you don't trust someone at all? I would just go mad.
Reply 3
I wouldn't have a problem with it at all.
Reply 4
gracie88
How can you be in a relationship where you don't trust someone at all? I would just go mad.


I think that was the point being made..
Reply 5
I wouldn't mind because I'd know he just be at mine most of the time, ha. But if you go to different unis I guess it'd be a different story.
Well to be honest its usually just more than 2 people to a house. Im about to share with 5 other people, its 3 guys and 3 girls, I have a girlfriend and so does one of the other guys and theres not problem at all with our partners.

You tend to only share with people your friends with anyway, people your living at halls/campus with usually and with societies etc. Are you happy with your bf being at uni at the moment being in halls with other girls around?
Reply 7
My boyfriend lived with another girl last year and it didn't bother me in the slightest. :s-smilie:
Reply 8
If he was living with just another girl, it's a bit suspicious. If he's moving in with a group of people, some of whom are female, it means nothing and it's stupid worrying about it.
gracie88
How can you be in a relationship where you don't trust someone at all? I would just go mad.

We're at breaking point...so yeah...:frown:
If you don;t trust him as the others said then the relationship is going nowhere. Honestly if he loves you he won't do anything with the girl he;s sharing a house with.
I trust my boyfriend 100% but i'd still be a little worried. He's living on campus next year as SRS with all the hot young freshers and that worries me more than anything else has before.
Reply 12
There is something wrong if you can't trust your bf to live in a house with other people. Just because there is going to be another girl about doesn't mean that he will jump into her pants.
Reply 13
hippieglitter
I trust my boyfriend 100% but i'd still be a little worried. He's living on campus next year as SRS with all the hot young freshers and that worries me more than anything else has before.


What's SRS? :confused:
Reply 14
there will be another girl and one other boy, but they are a bit quiet. I trust my boyfriend but this girls seems t have abit of a thing for him and has just broken up with her boyfriend. We go to the same uni.
Anonymous
This is going to happen in the second yr of uni to my boyfriend and I'm not too sure how I feel about this. Boys/girls opinions welcome


Pretty suspicious.
Why is he doing that ?
Reply 16
ahh long story. when we started in Sept, i wasactually sharing self catered accom with the 2 girls and thats how he met them, Then after xmas I went in catered accom because I wanted more of a social life, anyway my boyfriend had also just moved into halls and was going to share with some lads, but they got a house for 6 not 7 so they didn't include him.
I had been asked to share by my girlfriends by then and also these (x) flatmates and so had my boyfriend ( by my x flatmates I mean) and as he had no one else decided to share with my x flatmates, this girl being one of them..

That is why I am a bit hesitant as now ( and before I left the flat to be honest) she is in touch with him lots, I think she would like to be more than friends with him, that why I'm worried.
Dont you trust him not to do anything? He's with you not her, and to be honest he would need to keep in contact with her quite a lot to arrange house details if they are sharing, like deposits/monthly rent etc.
I live with my boyfriend with a load of lads so I don't have this problem. If another girl was to move in or he moved in to a house with girls then I would trust him but I wouldn't like it if they started flirting with him.
Reply 19
Bloody hell. I shared with two girls last year and I never even considered that my girlfriend might be remotely concerned.

It is rather untrusting.