I'm having an affair with a girl who has a bf but she she refuses to leave him

It sounds more like an infatuation (that you will outgrow very quickly) than a serious affection for her, I'm afraid.

don't
step away
what she was gonna do (cheat) is disgusting but she caught herself
she loves HIM not YOU
she is TAKEN

so kindly escort your a$s out of their lives and don't be a homewrecker

Leave her. You're just going to get more attached and she's never leaving him.

That seems like the opposite thread of the other guy with the same exact situation...how interesting.

I had to check the dictionary for infatuation :-) I like your eloquence. Why do you think so?

I'm so confused, I love her, she makes me go crazy and she's done nothing wrong to me.

But I really want her. This is the second girl I feel this way about and I really really really want her.

If I want I can sleep with a woman every week

We've only known each other for a month so I suppose. But should I try to see her less often to get my mind off her? Like should I ignore her and keep telling her I'm busy and that.

I'm having an affair with a girl who has a bf but she she refuses to leave him, I'm under so much pressure, what should I do?
So I met this girl in my lecture and she is absolutely gorgeous. It's like God made her for me. So beautiful, so innocent looking, so shy and quiet and I enjoy spending every second with her. She likes me too. She texts me and cares for me I get from her behaviour that she does like me. But sadly she is in a long distance relationship, they've been together for 3 years and she always talks nicely of him. Like she says it's 'we're one soul in two bodies', 'we really understand each other' and 'I miss him a lot'. They talk every day apparently and basically it's quite serious. But, on the other hand, we kiss and she sleeps over at my place. We have done some stuff more than kissing like touching and stuff but never had sex, not even oral. We decided not to kiss anymore once she gets back from Christmas holidays.I'm so confused, I love her, she makes me go crazy and she's done nothing wrong to me. She never said she'll leave him and she's never said that I can have her. But I really want her. This is the second girl I feel this way about and I really really really want her. I enjoy spending every second with her. I can be with other women and I used to be quite successful with dating. If I want I can sleep with a woman every week but since I met her I cant be attracted to anyone like her. Despite my efforts to try to find someone else. What should I do? Should I move on? Should we stop seeing each other? Should I ask her to leave him? Is there any hope that we could be together or should I forget about it altogether?

it's not good to be that judgmental. I can't control my feelings that way. I wish I could. I was just asking for some help and advice.



But why is she never leaving him? Are they going to be together forever?
I mean why did she kiss me in the first place if they were that happy together?
She kissed me first btw.

You are whats wrong with society.

Because it's long distance and she gets bored.

She doesn't love you. They might not be together forever but she's not leaving him for you, if she was going to she would have before kissing you.

You're both ******s, so at this point do what you want. I just hope the guy who is innocent in all this moves on relatively pain free.

then she's a whore. Playing with other people's feelings like that. I never looked at it this way. Thank you Thank you Thank you
She doubled the attention, from her bf on one side and me while I was being ****ed over like that.

Should I tell him?

Exactly. She's only using you for what she can't get right now.

But yeah, that escalated quickly.

and (you dont have to believe me) we never had sex because I said no. I told her I must have some self respect. I dont think I can stay friends with her because I cant help feel that I need her. I will wait for her to come back, after a week or two I'll talk with her and ask her to leave him. She'll most likely say no and I will say I can't see you anymore because I can't be played with like that.
Does that sound like a good plan?