Muslim girl wanting to stop masturbatingWatch
Hahahaha what?!?! Is this guy actually serious? Look, it's perfectly normal to feel like this and to masturbate. Just don't go overboard with it. Ignore what the previous guy said, its not going to make you more likely to cheat or sin. Regardless of religion, everyone has probably done it or at least been curious about it. You arent going to be less of a woman by doing it; in fact it should be more liberating for you as you are exploring and learning more about yourself and your sexuality (from a non-religious standpoint). You won't be as scared in the future with your partner because you will have some inclination of what feels good to you. Morons who tell you to "look after your dignity" are just prudish predators who just want to be controlling. Live your own life.
What people say in public they do and what they actually do in private are often two very different things. Ditto what they tell other people to do and what they do themselves.
No it isn't. There's no physical change in your body chemistry, for example.
Masturbation simply is not harmful. Your body reacts the same whether it's you doing it or a husband is, and no-one is telling you that you shouldn't be sexual with a husband.
Also, it is an addiction, dopamine is released when you orgasm, so when you don't, you crave the feeling you get from it.
Noones saying you shouldn't be sexual with your husband, but in Islam you shouldn't be sexual with yourself
You can always get a vibrater to do this instead of you.
Otherwise it nothing to worry about as long as you perhaps don't do this every day.
The urge for masturbation, in my opinion, is mainly caused as a response to stress. Masturbation releases dopamine chemical in the brain, which masks the feeling of stress. However, there are other chemicals too which reduce stress and make you feel happy. These are a group of chemicals known as endorphins, which are mainly released as a response to pain.
I believe from my personal experience that endorphins can alleviate the urge to masturbate. They may or may not help you, but I strongly urge you to try.
Like I said, endorophins are released mainly in response to pain, so what we need is to feel pain. By 'pain' here, I do not mean the injurious type of pain, but I mean the good kind of pain, caused by activities such as intense excercise, taking a hot shower, or eating spicy food.
One of the best ways I have found is to do excercises which hurt. I feel a 'high' after doing them until I can not move anymore. They release enough endorphins to completely eradicate the urge to masturbate, for the day at least. So, why not you try and find out?
That was the end of my answer, however if you need some help getting started, then these are some of the excercises which can tire you out in 10-15 mins of doing them:
• Pistol squats.
• Pull ups.
• Body saw.
• Decline push ups.
• Dumbell thruster.
• Dumbell side lateral raise.
(You may take a hot shower after excercise).
Hi, I am 19 years old and i have probably been masturbating since i was 11. I really want to stop but don't know how because i'm like proper addicted to it. I want to stop because i cant pray if i do it. i masturbate like 4 times a day.
I don't want any people on this thread saying its okay to masturbate because to me its not, its a disease of the mind.
Just continue, it is probably better than getting in trouble with your family for having a bf or hookups.