Help, I have become a Myspace stalker!!

I cant help looking at this boy from my towns profile. He has details about what uni he goes to, his band, where he works in the summer, his friends..pretty much everything. He has a girlfriend (who I used to go to college with), I keep imagining somehow meeting him, maybe even applying for a job where he works, seducing him then breaking them up. Im aware im turning into a stalker, I cant stop looking at his profile, im addicted, (it feels like one of those teen crushes people have on celebs)ive been doing it for 3 months. I could easily make my presence known to him by simply clicking the, send a message button and bearing my soul.

I really need some advice, im aware that I am a stalker but I cant control myself.

Reply 1

Dutchmeister

are you kidding me????.......how lonely are you? pathetic.....wanting to break up a couple just because he fascinates you? pffft.........grow up sunshine.

Reply 2

ßlαcksωαn

17

Hmm, if this is a serious thread it is kind of sad. I think you need to block/ignore him..if you can do that if he's not your friend I don't know. How old are you? I think you need to review why you are so fasinated by him, and just try and get over it.

Reply 3

Yoda

12

Try chatting to other people. And don't ask for their myspace.

Reply 4

tinypony

I love H&R. You know, why don't we use the motto: "Where genuine lunatics go"

Reply 5

Anonymous #2

TheDutchy

are you kidding me????.......how lonely are you? pathetic.....wanting to break up a couple just because he fascinates you? pffft.........grow up sunshine.

Do people use "lonely" as an insult these days? I dont think loneliness has anything to do with myspace stalking so get off your high horse.

OP just find something else to do. Once you meet someone in real life you wont even think about this anymore. We all fantasise about people that we have no intention of meeting, e.g. celebrities and stuff. As long as you dont start making a nuisance of yourself in real life or attempting to make contact with this guy it sounds like you are in control of the situation. Just keep remembering that fantasies are just that, and that if you met this guy he probably wouldnt be all you are cracking him up to be anyway!

Reply 6

TOD100

It highlights what myspace has become...

To the OP: get out and meet other people. forget about this guy.

Reply 7

LipGloss

Oh puuuuu-lease. Everyone does it. If you choose to share details of your life on a social networking site, the people who look at it are not stalkers.

Reply 8

Nix!

11

LipGloss

Oh puuuuu-lease. Everyone does it. If you choose to share details of your life on a social networking site, the people who look at it are not stalkers.

Hmm, so how do you explain the bunny boiling?

Reply 9

LipGloss

I don't see any bunny-boiling.

Reply 10

noujazeg

2

People here are cruel. :p:

I've been cursed with the myspace-stalking bug myself, though admittedly it was towards someone I knew. But I can become oddly fascinated with strangers as well. It's human.

Have you spoken to any of your friends about it? Only I get the feeling that at the moment you've turned this into some kind of shameful secret, and talking to someone about it might put things into perspective. Because at the end of the day, it's just a crush on someone inaccessible. There's nothing weird or sinister about it. We've all been there in some shape or form. :smile:

At the same time, you need to face up to the cruel truth: he's got a girlfriend, he's happy with her and he doesn't want you. It's a fact. So try to distract yourself from him by going out with your friends, going on dates, focusing on school/work/hobbies. Force yourself to go a full day (or something) without looking at his profile. You'll feel better.

Reply 11

Anthonyjm71

9

blackswan

Hmm, if this is a serious thread it is kind of sad. I think you need to block/ignore him..if you can do that if he's not your friend I don't know. How old are you? I think you need to review why you are so fasinated by him, and just try and get over it.

Exactly have no choice other than to get over it move on dont get drawn into myspace better things to be doing with your time , for searching for the odd stuff on there.,

Reply 12

bunthulhu

14

LipGloss

Oh puuuuu-lease. Everyone does it. If you choose to share details of your life on a social networking site, the people who look at it are not stalkers.

I think you should read the OP again; she has an obsession and it is certainly not normal.

I think you need to distract yourself, OP, by getting out and actually meeting some people who'll take your mind off this guy. Try your best to not go on his webpage, too.

Reply 13

Sithius

16

Myspace is crap. IMO.

Reply 14

Dutchmeister

Anonymous

Do people use "lonely" as an insult these days? I dont think loneliness has anything to do with myspace stalking so get off your high horse.

I said that the OP must be lonely is she is willing to BREAK UP A RELATIONSHIP just because she finds him interesting.

Read, its good for you........now excuse me, have to get back to my "high horse" :rolleyes:

Reply 15

PhilMc

16

BEBO FTW.

Everyone does it, maybe not to your extent, but okay just block him.

Help, I have become a Myspace stalker!!

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