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Ladies, would you date a bi guy?

Would you date a guy who is bisexual, or admits to having experimented sexually with men in his past?

Particularly interested in your views if you are an ethnic minority - especially if you are a south Asian girl.

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why not

Don't really matter. People date people because they like them not because if who their previous sexual partners were. Some people though, the insecure ones, think that bi people are just constantly on 'the hunt' and are really greedy. So there might be some girls that will go total para on who you're hanging out with because they're concerned that you're going to sleep with them. My advice is go for someone who is also bi so they understand the fact that nobody ,even bi's , is attracted to everyone that they meet or wants to bone them.

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Reply 3

Saoirse:3

Absolutely. Imagine how cool it'd be to have a boyfriend who might also have gay best friends, and instead of getting jealous would join in when you started saying how hot some celebs are :biggrin:

(I'm Irish btw even though that's not the ethnic minority you're looking for).

Yep

You can have conversations together about how hot Tom Hardy is.

Reply 6

acupofgreentea

Not a south Asian female, but yeah - why the hell wouldn't I?

Reply 7

Lil singh

Original post by thecatwithnohat

Yep

that's double the people you have to worry about him cheating on you with :colone:

Reply 8

thecatwithnohat

Original post by Lil singh

that's double the people you have to worry about him cheating on you with :colone:

i'm not with anyone to be cheated on harhar

and he's not bi :erm:

omg was that the 'embarrassing' thing?! :cry2:

Reply 9

Saoirse:3

Original post by Lil singh

that's double the people you have to worry about him cheating on you with :colone:

If you have to worry about your boyfriend getting with everyone of the opposite sex then sorry to say it but your relationship sucks anyway!

Reply 10

Lil singh

Original post by thecatwithnohat

i'm not with anyone to be cheated on harhar

and he's not bi :erm:

omg was that the 'embarrassing' thing?! :cry2:

No Jesus lol
I meant him as in, any him

Reply 11

thecatwithnohat

Original post by Saoirse:3

If you have to worry about your boyfriend getting with everyone of the opposite sex then sorry to say it but your relationship sucks anyway!

sir-sha it's too early in the morning to be hearing the truth :erm:

Reply 12

Lil singh

Original post by Saoirse:3

If you have to worry about your boyfriend getting with everyone of the opposite sex then sorry to say it but your relationship sucks anyway!

I...don't have a boyfriend.

Reply 13

Flame Alchemist

Not a girl, but throwing my penny in regardless: I only realised the girl I was dating was bi AFTER we split up after six months.

Makes no difference to me, personally. If I'd found out she identified as gay, well then that would have been very confusing. But, her sexuality identity included me, so what difference would it make? :h:

In fact, I was infinitely more concerned with what the fact I only just found out implied about the state of our relationship than the fact she was bi itself.

Reply 14

Lil singh

Original post by thecatwithnohat

sir-sha it's too early in the morning to be hearing the truth :erm:

What? How're you siding with this person?! Who even is this person? lol

Reply 15

Lil singh

Original post by thecatwithnohat

sir-sha it's too early in the morning to be hearing the truth :erm:

The name is pronounced, sir-sha? I thought it was...sarsee...

Reply 16

username155270

Too much to risk, seems too much of a headache.

I'm a Catholic Portuguese and indo- Guyanese mix.

Reply 17

Saoirse:3

Original post by thecatwithnohat

sir-sha it's too early in the morning to be hearing the truth :erm:

I'm sorry

Original post by Lil singh

I...don't have a boyfriend.

Maybe soon :smile:

Original post by Lil singh

The name is pronounced, sir-sha? I thought it was...sarsee...

Seer-sha

Reply 18

z33

Original post by Saoirse:3

Absolutely. Imagine how cool it'd be to have a boyfriend who might also have gay best friends, and instead of getting jealous would join in when you started saying how hot some celebs are :biggrin:

(I'm Irish btw even though that's not the ethnic minority you're looking for).