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what should i do? please help.

my boyfriend and i have been together for about six months now. before this we had been very very close friends for a couple of years.

i was slightly sceptical when we first started going out that it could ruin our great friendship, but everything was great. he was so wonderful to me.. now recently it feels like he has lost enterest in me.

he used to always say he loved me etc, now he never seems to say anything like that... although we still spend lots of time together, i feel like he's lost interest in even talking to me i.e just general conversation. when i see him it is in school... however he seems to meet up with other girls alot more out of school.. one of whom he recently told he wants to have sex with... i dunno if he was being jokey or not.

no matter what, i love and respect him so much.. but atm i feel a bit unwanted... i don't know if i should continue this as a bf/gf relationship or try and go back to just being friends... opinions please???
Speak to him about it.

We can't give you advice on this because we're only hearing your side of the story - and unless you ask him, that's all you're hearing too. Maybe he thinks your relationship is at some sort of level where you don't constantly have to be around each other to know you're wanted; maybe he genuinely has lost interest. Maybe he just wants a bit more time to himself - of course he meets up with other girls more, because they're plural. He might meet up with each individual one less than he sees you, or he might only see them in large groups but he sees you on your own, or something.

It's all hypothesis - ask him, that's the only way you'll know.
Agreed, you need to talk to him about it.