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pulling girls?

i overheard my boyfriend telling one of his best mates that when he went out the night before he "pulled this really fit girl" ok so im angry pretty much every way right now, but what exactly does "pulling" entail from a guy's point of view? i dont want to confront him and seem naive when im not sure what it meant. :confused:
any help would be appreciated!

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Reply 1
To pull= To kiss as far as I know. I suppose you need to confront him if you want to know his definition of the term.
Reply 2
wait! It can just mean taking an intrest. Like if he was dancing and someone asked for his number that can mean opulling too. Try not to get overworked just yet. You do need to talk to him though.
Reply 3
******* hell! I'd actually castrate him if he were my bf. Pulling as far as I know means snogging etc and that's bad enough, but that he was actually boasting about it to a friend? That's just low. Hun, chuck him.
Reply 4
No, no, no. It can just mean the girl showed a big interest in him.
Meep!
******* hell! I'd actually castrate him if he were my bf.


lol :biggrin:

It means snogging where i come from. what a prat.

maybe you could trick his friend into telling you what he did. like say, 'yeah my bf told me about that girl he got with the other night.' and then maybe you'll get a proper indication of what happened.
Reply 6
I actaully said they asked for his number it doesn't mean he gave it anyway that isn't the point. That mite not have happened. i'VE been with my boyf 4 yrs and I still 'pull' in terms of lads taken in interets nothing more. I just say no, i'm taken and then me and my mates have a giggle about it. He may have bragged coz it made him feel good and gave him a boost, he's prob just talking the talk

Ever heard the phrase when someones looking at you from the corner

'mate, look i think you've pulled'?
Reply 7
It doesn't matter what context he's putting "pulling" in, even though for the vast majority it means kissing with tongues.

The fact that he's boasting to his mate about having some sort of sexual-related contact with a different girl in a nightclub is reason enough for you to get ripped right into him.
Reply 8
its doesnt have to mean sexually related.
Reply 9
kitty12
its doesnt have to mean sexually related.


It does to all normal people.
Reply 10
"Hey, Does this rag smell like chloroform to you?"
kitty12
its doesnt have to mean sexually related.


Even if it did mean your definition - a girl showed interest in him....

He bragged about this to his friend, furthermore called her "fit" after she showed interest in him even though he was in a relationship.

Regardless, 99% of places pulling means kissing/snogging.
Confront him, but don't go crazy.
Kissing i'm guessing... speak to him about it :s-smilie:
He was talking to his mate tho, bravado? He could just be bull****ting to look like a player.
Reply 14
thanks for all your help guys, from teh point of view of most of my girl mates it also means snogging and/or more :frown: wow my conversation with him tonight should be fun!
so teh question is...

do i pretend i dont know and try and find out more info from his mate, because if i ask him chances are he'll deny it
or
just come straight out and ask him, not be too mad until i know whats happened.. although youre all right they way he sounded so proud has made me the most angry!!

i just think if i ask him straight out he'll try and deny it

GRR!! HELPPPP !

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kitty12
I actaully said they asked for his number it doesn't mean he gave it anyway that isn't the point. That mite not have happened. i'VE been with my boyf 4 yrs and I still 'pull' in terms of lads taken in interets nothing more. I just say no, i'm taken and then me and my mates have a giggle about it. He may have bragged coz it made him feel good and gave him a boost, he's prob just talking the talk

Ever heard the phrase when someones looking at you from the corner

'mate, look i think you've pulled'?


Nuff said.
I would least have a word with him, because even if he was bull****ting, he should have considered your feelings.
Reply 17
Its just a 'look at my ego' term...basically meaning you had the ability to get off with someone, *shock horror* life continues...
Yeah it usually means snogging.
It means kissing over here too. You could say you pulled someone the other night and see what he makes of that.
Although, this option could turn on you.:s-smilie: