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Me and a guy have been seeing each other for almost 3 months. We are acting like a couple, see each other a couple of times a week, i have some of my stuff left at his. I told him before I wasnt ready for committment yet, but now I know how i feel about him and I want to be in a relationship with him. All that would change is the label. How do I bring this up without it being awkward?
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Me and a guy have been seeing each other for almost 3 months. We are acting like a couple, see each other a couple ofi times a week, i have some of my stuff left at his. I told him before I wasnt ready for committment yet, but now I know how i feel about him and I want to be in a relationship with him. All that would change is the label. How do I bring this up without it being awkward?
Do it whilst youre drunk
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I don't understand this official nonsense lel
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I don't understand this official nonsense lel
Basically so I can refer to him as my boyfriend instead of 'the guy I'm seeing'
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Basically so I can refer to him as my boyfriend instead of 'the guy I'm seeing'
If your seeing someone , aren't they your boyfriend after 3 months lel
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If your seeing someone , aren't they your boyfriend after 3 months lel
I wouldnt call someone my boyfriend unless its been discussed.
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I wouldnt call someone my boyfriend unless its been discussed.
So if you've been together for a year and haven't brought this topic up , would you not call him your boyfriend?

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(Original post by TSR Mustafa)
So if you've been together for a year and haven't brought this topic up , would you not call him your boyfriend?

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No id bring it up beforehand. In my 3 previous relationships I got asked to be someone's girlfriend. This guy is older though, not sure if that makes a difference.
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No id bring it up beforehand. In my 3 previous relationships I got asked to be someone's girlfriend. This guy is older though, not sure if that makes a difference.
Hmm prolly his sidechick , maybe ask him
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Me and a guy have been seeing each other for almost 3 months. We are acting like a couple, see each other a couple of times a week, i have some of my stuff left at his. I told him before I wasnt ready for committment yet, but now I know how i feel about him and I want to be in a relationship with him. All that would change is the label. How do I bring this up without it being awkward?
Sounds like you're the one who feels awkward about it.

Also "official" isn't a relationship. Grow up.
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Facebook relationship request.
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"Do ya wanna put us on Facebook?"
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Facebook relationship request.
****, you beat me to it.
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Sounds like you're the one who feels awkward about it.

Also "official" isn't a relationship. Grow up.
I think you're being a bit mean...

OP, I would just say, 'shall we make this official?' I think a common way girls ask the question is, 'so... what are we?'
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