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Hi.
So.. my best friend is a boy. I also have a boyfriend.

My best friend has severe depression. He also has a girlfriend, They keep having issues and she keeps asking me to tell her what he has told me. I do not under any circumstances tell this girl anything my best friend tells me as it is private and confidential. But how do i tell her to back off?

I've already told her my loyalty lies with him not her... yet she doesn't seem to get the picture.

Do I tell him she has been messaging me (and I've read but ignored them) or what? What do i tell her?

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Emily.97
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You can tell your friend anything, because, like you said, your loyalty lies with him.
If youre not comfortable giving her information, then dont! Tell her to go and ask her boyfriend if she wants to know.
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Honesty is the best policy. I'd keep reminding her that you're a good friend to him and you wouldn't spread what he's been saying. Mention to him that she keeps messaging you, maybe suggest that he should talk to her a bit more about it. If she continues, you'll just have to ignore it
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