Should I say anything?

Before begin, I know this is probably in the wrong category but I wanted to post anonymously which I somehow couldn't do in General Discussion.

At the weekend, there was a party which a large chunk of my year group went to, but I didn't. Whilst there, my ex-boyfriend met a very drunk girl (as in drunk to the point of not having a clue what was going on). He ended up touching down south, and taking photos and videos of him doing so on his phone. I don't know if the girl was aware what was going on, but even if she was I'm guessing drunkness would sway the decision she would normally take.

He's now showing these videos and photos to people and seems proud of what he's done. I don't know the girl in question, nor do I know how I could ever contact her. Should I tell someone, such as a teacher? I know it's not my place to say, and it's not really anyones except the girl's (I don't even know her name) but surely it's the right thing to do? I don't think it's right for him to get away with it.

What would you do?

Reply 1

FyreFight

Tell a teacher? =/ Christ no. Even the teacher would think you were a weirdo busybody. It has nothing to do with the school whatsoever.

If he's showing them all off, she'll find out what happened and sort it out herself.

Reply 2

sus_clarke

Your ex sounds like an ass! Gud thing ur rid of him! :p:

In ways of advice i dont fink you shud tell a teacher at all. And if you confronted ur ex u'd just sound jealous. Best just to let him get on with his pathetic antics.

Reply 3

skcollob

What an A*sehole he sounds like! i hope he never treated you in such a way!... i'd say what goes around comes around- you have the best interests at heart but you may end up getting hurt/tangled up in it all... :s-smilie:

Good luck with the situation tho xx

Reply 4

Marian.

No. Don't say anything.

Reply 5

username47781

Well least it ain't you. Be thankful you got away from the sleezy horrible guy. I feel sorry for the girl when she finds out pictures of her are flying around.

Reply 6

sweetface.

Anonymous

At the weekend, there was a party which a large chunk of my year group went to, but I didn't. Whilst there, my ex-boyfriend met a very drunk girl.

Well since you said that he's your ex, you should have no regrets of what you have done. You should just try to move on and forget about whats happened.

Reply 7

ForumFreak

He sounds pretty nasty. As others have said the girl will find out for herself whats happened and I think you should just let her decide how she wants to deal with it whether thats reporting your ex or not.

Reply 8

username94219

As harsh as it sounds, best thing to do is to keep quiet about it.

GD

Reply 9

Anonymous #2

WHAT!? I don't know why everyone seems to thing you should stay out of it! I think you need to do something. If I was you then I would ask around until you find someone who knows the girl and has her number and then call her. She may never find out otherwise and if it was me then I would want to know. This guy is such a jerk and I think it is your duty as a feeling human being to do something about it. If you can't get her number then I would tell a teacher or at least confront him about his actions and let him know what a disguting pig you thing he is.