Please help me - This girl confuses me

OK I'm pretty sure she likes me :

- We went to this house party together and we argued with each other
- we pull faces at each other
- she's very touchy with me
- she hugs me
- she kissed me on my hand
- and said she'd miss me when i went uni

now i've seen her again recently and she has upped the anti
- she's still very touchy with me still
- she lets me touch / stroke her face
- she came up to me when i was standing behind my desk at work and leaned on it then got back up and said you were meant to kiss me then you know :redface:

- we always kiss each other on the cheek and have very long hugs
- then when i was out with friends the other week she goes up to one of them and asks where i am
- then again at work every ten minutes or so, she kept asking a fellow worker where i was :biggrin:

, then when i finally came out from my hole (as i was working behind the scenes) we hugged and kissed, laughed and chatted.

Now here's the confusion - she told me that she's going to uni quite a way from me, and said that i can still keep in contact with her on myspace - but when i messaged her recently she read them but didn't reply back (although tbf i didn't really ask a question) :confused:

now, i don't know what to do :frown:

any ideas?

Also do you think i should add her to msn or send her a message first asking if i can add her? - she has her msn addy on her myspace page. :confused:

Thanks for any help you can give me.

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Reply 1

Llamaaa

she may be waiting for you to ask her to be your girlfriend. Ask her in person before she goes away. she may be trying to force you into action. So make a move!

Reply 2

spacecowgirl89

helenkr

she may be waiting for you to ask her to be your girlfriend. Ask her in person before she goes away. she may be trying to force you into action. So make a move!

I second that notion! Ask her out! :smile:

Reply 3

h82think

helenkr

she may be waiting for you to ask her to be your girlfriend. Ask her in person before she goes away. she may be trying to force you into action. So make a move!

and I third it- if you don't ask her out you're a fool!

Reply 4

sweetface.

helenkr

she may be waiting for you to ask her to be your girlfriend. Ask her in person before she goes away. she may be trying to force you into action. So make a move!

I fourth that! lol (is that even a saying, lol?!) Anyway go for it! Ask her :wink:

Reply 5

sufiankane

she justs sounds busy tbh, on facebook i take upto a week to reply just the fact that everyone wants a piece of me and they are going to have to share me.

Reply 6

Yoda

You sure she likes you? Seems to me shes just being polite.

Go ask her on a date. Being told she's starting at a uni away from you is her way of saying "hurry up".

Reply 7

sweetface.

Just talk to her see to see what she wants guessing is never a good idea.

Reply 8

spacecowgirl89

Yoda

You sure she likes you? Seems to me shes just being polite.

You think kissing, hugging and being touchy is being polite??

Reply 9

Yoda

spacecowgirl89

I don't understand sarcasm

We know.

Reply 10

spacecowgirl89

it's quite hard to deduce you're being sarcastic through a screen.

Reply 11

sufiankane

yoda isnt being sarcastic.

Reply 12

*Katie*

spacecowgirl89

You think kissing, hugging and being touchy is being polite??

H&R....where sarcasm goes to die.
I would go for it - who cares about myspace/facebook etc.? It's all about real interaction; ask her out to dinner. How exactly is she being confusing?You know she's not going to say no.

Reply 13

TW-04

Hmm so I should go for it then? I've known her on and off for about a year - but I don't really know what you mean by 'just talk to her'.

I'm just confused coz I make the effort to message her but she never messages me back - although she has told me that she loves me a few times.

Maybe i'm just slow on the uptake? :biggrin:

However long distance relationships never seem to work anyway...

Reply 14

Yoda

What else does "just talk to her" mean?

Reply 15

Morbo

dude, you're going to uni. it's not a great time to start a relationship.

Reply 16

Yoda

And its coming up to summer. Go to all the parties and stuff first, then get a girl during autumn.

Reply 17

heppelstone16

mate you will never understand the opposite sex it's just an impossibility. lol

Reply 18

Yoda

Unless you look at what is really happening rather than what you want to believe, it is impossible.

Reply 19

browzer-911

dont read into it. i often just read messages on facebook but just cant be bothered to think of a reply. dosent mean i dont like the person.

how do you know she read them?