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Can't find the right woman

I'm submissive and need a dominant woman. It's very hard to find. Can anyone advise me on how to get what I want, or more aptly, get to give her what she wants. Websites aren't much good I'm afraid.

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Reply 1

spacecowgirl89

The last bit makes it sound as if you have a dominant woman, when the first implies you don't..which is it?

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

I don't have one, sorry if I was unclear.

Reply 3

sweetface.

You can't just look for that kind of women, let her come to you. Then find the right opportunity to get with her.

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

What you think that kind will approach me if tey're interested? I shouldn't seek them at all?

Reply 5

sweetface.

If you choose to seek for someone they will never come to you, you need to give it time. Then you will see this right women for you. Yeah they could approach you if they are interested but if your interested in them you should go and talk to them.

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

How do I let them know early on that (if I'm keen on them) tha I want them to have a lot of control in the realtionship, force me to be humble, respectful at times etc? Even if she's naturally quite dominant, it might shock her

Reply 7

h82think

I know many single females who like to be dominant, so they are out there :smile:

Reply 8

sweetface.

Well then you tell her that you find it hot if a girl controls the relationship more than you. But also tell her that you don't want her to get worried and it's okay for her to tell you her opinions about this situation.

Reply 9

sweetface.

h82think

I know many single females who like to be dominant, so they are out there :smile:

Yeah they are out there, but not every girl likes the idea.

Reply 10

sufiankane

Anonymous

I'm submissive and need a dominant woman. It's very hard to find. Can anyone advise me on how to get what I want, or more aptly, get to give her what she wants. Websites aren't much good I'm afraid.

you got this the wrong way round. Men are the dominant species in a relationship. Always.

Reply 11

spacecowgirl89

I wish my boyfriend wanted me to have more control in our relationship! :p:

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

sufiankane

you got this the wrong way round. Men are the dominant species in a relationship. Always.

Lol yeah right. They just like to believe that. The extent to which men are manipulate/controlled by women is laughably transparent at times. Men try to cover it by acting macho.

Reply 13

sweetface.

spacecowgirl89

I wish my boyfriend wanted me to have more control in our relationship! :p:

Yeah, I know what you mean. But I don't mind either way :smile:

Reply 14

sufiankane

Anonymous

Lol yeah right. They just like to believe that. The extent to which men are manipulate/controlled by women is laughably transparent at times. Men try to cover it by acting macho.

all the men i know are dominant. they will listen to most things their girlfriends say and probably do it, but if he ultimately pushed a decision, they would listen to him.

You're a muslim?

But then again, nearly every girl loves to have a a guy who is a little dominant. You don't want to be too submissive. It's best if in the relationship if you share control in the relationship.

Reply 17

sufiankane

Anonymous

You're a muslim?

does it matter?

Reply 18

username43584

sufiankane

all the men i know are dominant. they will listen to most things their girlfriends say and probably do it, but if he ultimately pushed a decision, they would listen to him.

I disagree. My mum and dad are prime examples of dominant woman and submissive man. I wouldn't call my dad submissive because it sounds derogatory, but it's obvious that my mother wears the trousers in their relationship and he lets her (mainly because it's easier that way!) They have arguments and he can hold his own but she inevitably wins. It's not a bad thing - their marriage is stronger than any of their friends' relationships.