Hey guys.
Ok, so there's this girl who my bf is kinda like best friends with I guess and I hate it!
He was good friends with her before we met, then when we got together, she ditched us both and was really horrible to us cos we were together. Anyway, she's been back in our lives for about 4/5 months now as she works for my bf in his shop. Things were ok until me and my bf had a small upset in January and I realised he had spoken to her about it. I guess that's fair enough as I would talk to a good friend about it as well but it's just the fact it was her, you know?
Anyway since then i've been really paranoid that somethings going on and i've been quite miserable to be honest. I love my boyfriend so much and don't wanna lose him. He always tells me he loves me and that I won't lose him and I really don't think he would cheat on me, it's just my head going doolalee.
So onto what this post is about...has anyone got any tips on how I can not let her bother me, as I hate going to see my bf at lunch when she's there, I know you'd probably say don't go, which sometimes I won't but I don't want her to push me away from my bf. Also when she txts him or he chats to her online and stuff, how can I try and not let it bother me? I'm usually so eager to read his txts from her as well just to calm me down that nothings going on. Its so hard!
Help!