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Getting somebody out of your head

This is a silly question. I know most people are just going to tell me to ignore the crush, that's obvious. I suppose this is more like a vent than an asking for advice really in that case.

Anyway the thing is I'm not single at all. I'm very much taken and I'm happy; but I have recently started having a crush on somebody else. I wouldn't ever do anything with them or persue it or anything, it's just really annoying me that's all.

I know it's fine to look but not to touch, but I keep finding myself thinking about him a hell of a lot and I'd love to be able to just stop! It's starting to bug me!

What makes it worse is that the person I have a crush on is one of my lecturers! :redface:

Anyway as I say it's more like rant really. I know to just ignore it and hope the silly crush goes away, but it's really getting on my nerves.

Reply 1

oh, i've had someone in my head for the past 2 and a half years, and only been together with him for like, 2 of those years, but i can't get him out of my head... plus i'm with someone else.
i guess you just eventually forget about them... or i hope so anyway;.

Reply 2

Whoever discovers the magic formula for getting somebody out of your head will be a very rich person indeed!

Reply 3

Anonymous
This is a silly question. I know most people are just going to tell me to ignore the crush, that's obvious. I suppose this is more like a vent than an asking for advice really in that case.

Anyway the thing is I'm not single at all. I'm very much taken and I'm happy; but I have recently started having a crush on somebody else. I wouldn't ever do anything with them or persue it or anything, it's just really annoying me that's all.

I know it's fine to look but not to touch, but I keep finding myself thinking about him a hell of a lot and I'd love to be able to just stop! It's starting to bug me!

What makes it worse is that the person I have a crush on is one of my lecturers! :redface:

Anyway as I say it's more like rant really. I know to just ignore it and hope the silly crush goes away, but it's really getting on my nerves.


Don't worry about it. I think it's perfectly normal. I've had crushes on guys before, but that's all they are, it's probably just a passing phase, may come back for a lil while later on if it goes but that's all it is really. I bet guys get it too..they just don't admit it 'cos they know we'll go crazy :p: