The Student Room Group

guy issues (or lack of?!)

im twenty years old; very sociable, reasonably pretty and i'm reasonably intelligent but have never had a boyfriend and am feeling a bit low about it..which hasnt been helped by the following situation.

a while ago i was told by a guy that i thought was nice that he really liked me and he asked me out. i said yes and we sort of arranged something but then it never really got around to actually going out.

haven't heard from him since, although he tells my friend that he bottled it cos it was a bad time for him (problems with housemates) whenever he sees her out...but since then he's basically ignored me (although we never spoke much before anyway)...but i still like him and don't know what to do cos i'm quite shy.

any suggestions?
Reply 1
Suggest a time to meet him.
Reply 2
Yoda
Suggest a time to meet him.


:smile:
That sounds odd...so he ignores you now...for no apparent reason? Why don't you say hello to him the next time you see him and ask him if he still wants to do something with you ? Maybe suggest a place and time to meet and see what he says...

Good Luck :smile:

P.s. I think he sounds a bit embarrassed that he had to cancel the first time and so is not sure how to approach you again. I say this because you say he's shy....