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approaching a girl pt II

hi,

there is this girl at uni that i like, i havent spoken to her before, but we used to see each other around alot. anyway i havent seen her for sometime now (just as i decided i was going to speak to her!) and i was thinking of getting my friend to add her on msn (her addy is on facebook). my friend would then ask her if she is single and hint as to who i am.

is this a bit stalkerish/psychoish lol?

i should add i am 19 years old lol and i know this sounds immature, but i only have a few weeks left to speak to her b4 we break up for uni/exams.
unless your friend has some sort of connection with her from anything (friends of friends and saw u on facebook/thought i recognised you from a night out etc) then it will look proper dodgey.

Be better to just hope you bump into her and just strike up some convo
Reply 2
theoretically it's very silly and pointless and unnecessarily long and you should just, as person above said, hope to see her around some time soon so that you can finally strike up a convo with her and if you're not as lucky to see her, then add her yourself on facebook or something (isn't that what you all do anyway? add each other?).

BUT realistically, we know the theoretical bit is easier said than done for a lot of people. SO... go with the friend thing. it's not TOO weird though it's best you jump in there yourself instead of getting your friend to do it
Anonymous
hi,

there is this girl at uni that i like, i havent spoken to her before, but we used to see each other around alot. anyway i havent seen her for sometime now (just as i decided i was going to speak to her!) and i was thinking of getting my friend to add her on msn (her addy is on facebook). my friend would then ask her if she is single and hint as to who i am.

is this a bit stalkerish/psychoish lol?

i should add i am 19 years old lol and i know this sounds immature, but i only have a few weeks left to speak to her b4 we break up for uni/exams.

No, don't do that. It's creepy and weird. Next time you bump into her, ask her if she wants to get a coffee.
Reply 4
cheers for your replies guys.. ill wait and hopefully i will bump into her. if not ill try the facebook thing. thx again!
englishstudent
No, don't do that. It's creepy and weird. Next time you bump into her, ask her if she wants to get a coffee.


You're still here! :eek:

:p:
Philosoraptor
You're still here! :eek:

:p:

Where should I be? :eek:
Reply 7
Anonymous
hi,

there is this girl at uni that i like, i havent spoken to her before, but we used to see each other around alot. anyway i havent seen her for sometime now (just as i decided i was going to speak to her!) and i was thinking of getting my friend to add her on msn (her addy is on facebook). my friend would then ask her if she is single and hint as to who i am.

is this a bit stalkerish/psychoish lol?

i should add i am 19 years old lol and i know this sounds immature, but i only have a few weeks left to speak to her b4 we break up for uni/exams.

stop being soo sad and just approach her and talk to her.