hum dont know what to think

hi
i met this girl for the first time yesterday, i sed i wud show her around becoz she is new to the area, so anyways i met her, didnt know what to expect
but wen i met her i instantly fort she was beautiful, looks aint everything but they help with first impressions, so we spent all nite together jus talking and getting to know each other, she wasnt flirty but after a wile she started to feel a bit more comfortable with me, which i fort was a good sign, the more we talked the more i started to fall for her, she as got a lot of guys who like her and she gets many offers, this is where i know i dont have a chance with her, at least i dont think, but i know yesterday was something different for her too because she said i actully sat there and listened to her :smile:

and wen i left hers and we hugged there was a spark, i cuddve quite easily have kissed her but i dont want to ruin anything with her, i havent contacted her tonite becoz i dont want to seem desperate... etc.. but i havent stopped thinking about her, its weird becoz i never ave had too much of a problem wit girls, most of my mates are the oppisite sex and i grew up around girls, but i really feel confused and only have smiled today wen ive been thinking about last night..... what is going on??

Reply 1

sus_clarke

Get in with the kiss before you become a friend! For me friends are often a no go (espically if they mean alot to you) because love and sex brings complications that friendships often cant withstand :redface:

Reply 2

username47781

20

Nothing wrong with being friends at first, thats how a relationship grows. No point jumping in with a kiss, especially as you don't know her. P.S please write in proper english rather than text talk.

Reply 3

sus_clarke

It's my life

P.S please write in proper english rather than text talk.

I dont think this is very fair and im probably gonna get a bad rep for stickin my nose in and i apologise but i think if we choose 2 we shud be able to use language how we like. It is after all a living language and therefore subject to change and development :biggrin:

Reply 4

username47781

20

sus_clarke

I dont think this is very fair and im probably gonna get a bad rep for stickin my nose in and i apologise but i think if we choose 2 we shud be able to use language how we like. It is after all a living language and therefore subject to change and development :biggrin:

Well sorry love but it's against TSR rules

Reply 5

sus_clarke

Oh sorry didnt realise that! But i am a descriptivist and dont see what the problem is :biggrin:

Reply 6

username47781

20

No problem, back to the topic anyway

Reply 7

browzer-911

5

if you've only met her for one night then just give her a ring or whatever, say you enjoyed spending time with her and ask if she wants to go out again?

this sounds like one of the more ideal situations in all honesty.

Reply 8

Angrybanana

11

This sounds all too familiar a situation to me. Be careful you don't get stuck in the friend zone as sus_clarke said cos then anything you do to take things to another level will be awkward and embarassing for you both. Don't do anythng drastic, but maybe flirt a lot to let her know you're interested. And as for guys who assume they have no chance, they are usually right-not because they aren't good enough, but because they don't put themselves in the running, so can't win :wink:

Reply 9

puppy

'fort'? Are you kidding?

Reply 10

L i b

19

Get off the internet and give her a prodding.

Reply 11

xatm092

It's my life

Well sorry love but it's against TSR rules

M-M-M-ONSTER KILL! Kill kill kill...

Reply 12

ghostieee

OP

lol half of these replys are not even on the topic but thanks anyway, so basiclly i should get out of the friend zone? but say shes not interested? then i could lose her i dont want that! and if then she knows how i feel she could use it against me :confused:

Reply 13

Angrybanana

11

ghostieee

lol half of these replys are not even on the topic but thanks anyway, so basiclly i should get out of the friend zone? but say shes not interested? then i could lose her i dont want that! and if then she knows how i feel she could use it against me :confused:

You have to let her know how you feel at some point, and if you do it now a rejection would be much less awkward (and damaging to your friendship) than if you did it later on see, cos if you get that bit out of the way first then you can go on to have a good friendship both knowing where you stand with each other. Most reasonable people wouldn't dump you as a friend over something like that anyway. :smile:

Reply 14

ßlαcksωαn

17

You need to spend more time together before you make any moves. Just because you feel "something" between you two, it is too hard to tell after just knowing her for a day. Spend some more time together and then see how you both feel.

hum dont know what to think

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