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i have caused a bit of a pickle........i got rediculusly hammered last nite after i went out with mates wen was supposed to be going out with boyf but he cudnt at last min....i rang him up hurled abuse at him and made him drive to where i was about 25 mins away...shouted more abuse whilst throwing up...and now he never wants to see me again..i cnt even remeber what i sed i just no i was dissapointed he let me down as was lookin fwd to doing summin....i dunno wot to do..or even if there is anything i can do??help
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i have caused a bit of a pickle........i got rediculusly hammered last nite after i went out with mates wen was supposed to be going out with boyf but he cudnt at last min....i rang him up hurled abuse at him and made him drive to where i was about 25 mins away...shouted more abuse whilst throwing up...and now he never wants to see me again..i cnt even remeber what i sed i just no i was dissapointed he let me down as was lookin fwd to doing summin....i dunno wot to do..or even if there is anything i can do??help
Control that temper of yours - ok so he let you down, but what you did was worse and he's got reason to be annoyed at you. Just learn to not do it again in the future, that's the only advice i can give really.
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i have caused a bit of a pickle........i got rediculusly hammered last nite after i went out with mates wen was supposed to be going out with boyf but he cudnt at last min....i rang him up hurled abuse at him and made him drive to where i was about 25 mins away...shouted more abuse whilst throwing up...and now he never wants to see me again..i cnt even remeber what i sed i just no i was dissapointed he let me down as was lookin fwd to doing summin....i dunno wot to do..or even if there is anything i can do??help
well just call him and try to talk to him. be apologetic. and just try to speak with him.
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i have caused a bit of a pickle........i got rediculusly hammered last nite after i went out with mates wen was supposed to be going out with boyf but he cudnt at last min....i rang him up hurled abuse at him and made him drive to where i was about 25 mins away...shouted more abuse whilst throwing up...and now he never wants to see me again..i cnt even remeber what i sed i just no i was dissapointed he let me down as was lookin fwd to doing summin....i dunno wot to do..or even if there is anything i can do??help
call him, tell him your sorry, go see him. tell him what you just told us
if hes worth it he'l understand
be completely honest
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i have appoligised etc..but he just seed he never wnts to see me again...my own fault really im sure illg et ova it..i mean if he was actually botherd then he wud of accepting my appology just just proves he aint
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i have caused a bit of a pickle........i got rediculusly hammered last nite after i went out with mates wen was supposed to be going out with boyf but he cudnt at last min....i rang him up hurled abuse at him and made him drive to where i was about 25 mins away...shouted more abuse whilst throwing up...and now he never wants to see me again..i cnt even remeber what i sed i just no i was dissapointed he let me down as was lookin fwd to doing summin....i dunno wot to do..or even if there is anything i can do??help
grovel.

big time.
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i have caused a bit of a pickle........i got rediculusly hammered last nite after i went out with mates wen was supposed to be going out with boyf but he cudnt at last min....i rang him up hurled abuse at him and made him drive to where i was about 25 mins away...shouted more abuse whilst throwing up...and now he never wants to see me again..i cnt even remeber what i sed i just no i was dissapointed he let me down as was lookin fwd to doing summin....i dunno wot to do..or even if there is anything i can do??help

lol your behaviour does sound rather rank there - i would also be livid at you
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i have appoligised etc..but he just seed he never wnts to see me again...my own fault really im sure illg et ova it..i mean if he was actually botherd then he wud of accepting my appology just just proves he aint
I don't really understand that, sorry.... Just apologise perfusely and give him time to reconsider and decide whether you're worth it - which you probably are.
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i mean if he was actually botherd then he wud of accepting my appology just just proves he aint
Hmm - having said that you have no idea what you said to him, how can you make this statement?
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Hmm - having said that you have no idea what you said to him, how can you make this statement?
As you evidently understood her comment could you explain it to me please?
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well if he was bothered about me then he wud forgive me but he obviously never cared much if hes willin to end it cos of that..i mean i have reason to be upset cos he had been pomising me all week... and we been together for 3 years but in that time bout a yr ago he dumped me for sum1 else but then reaslised i was one..and i always thrown it back in his face wen im angry suppose i never really got over it..just wish i cud stop caring bout him and it wud be ok
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well if he was bothered about me then he wud forgive me but he obviously never cared much if hes willin to end it cos of that..i mean i have reason to be upset cos he had been pomising me all week... and we been together for 3 years but in that time bout a yr ago he dumped me for sum1 else but then reaslised i was one..and i always thrown it back in his face wen im angry suppose i never really got over it..just wish i cud stop caring bout him and it wud be ok
How do you know that you didn't say something totally out of order? It's difficult to come back from somethings, and often words can do more damage than actions...

Also did you bother to find out why he couldn't come out? I bet you'll feel shite if it turned outt hat a close friend was in trouble or a relative had died, and you tried to put a guilt trip on him.

If he just blew you out for no reason, he's a git - move on.

If there was a reason and you spat your dummy out, then maybe you're not mature enough to be in a relationship (or to hold your drink ).
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well if he was bothered about me then he wud forgive me but he obviously never cared much if hes willin to end it cos of that..i mean i have reason to be upset cos he had been pomising me all week... and we been together for 3 years but in that time bout a yr ago he dumped me for sum1 else but then reaslised i was one..and i always thrown it back in his face wen im angry suppose i never really got over it..just wish i cud stop caring bout him and it wud be ok
Oh dear. So to clarify you don't like him anymore? If so why make this post? If you want to stop caring about him just do what he did to you, find somebody else.
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well i have done that twice but we were on a break then so it isnt as bad as wot he did.... i do like him i cant help like him i just wish he hadnt of been so mean to me b4 ...it was ages ago but now my behaviour last nite has made him never wanna see me again!!!!!!!
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well i have done that twice but we were on a break then so it isnt as bad as wot he did.... i do like him i cant help like him i just wish he hadnt of been so mean to me b4 ...it was ages ago but now my behaviour last nite has made him never wanna see me again!!!!!!!

why are girls attracted to ar*eholes? lol
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How do you know that you didn't say something totally out of order? It's difficult to come back from somethings, and often words can do more damage than actions...

Also did you bother to find out why he couldn't come out? I bet you'll feel shite if it turned outt hat a close friend was in trouble or a relative had died, and you tried to put a guilt trip on him.

If he just blew you out for no reason, he's a git - move on.

If there was a reason and you spat your dummy out, then maybe you're not mature enough to be in a relationship (or to hold your drink ).
yes he had to help set up for his sisters party which is tonight..but he cud of invoted me over like he has done mny a time before...
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oh well, theres nothing you can do.

mayb it'll teach you a vaulable lesson.
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yes he had to help set up for his sisters party which is tonight..but he cud of invoted me over like he has done mny a time before...
but he didn't. It's not the end of the world, and on that basis, I actually think it were you that acted badly, not him. He drove 25 miles on your say so, only for you to abuse and vomit on him. Shesh!
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oh well, theres nothing you can do.

mayb it'll teach you a vaulable lesson.
um i dont think i can get over this as easy as that......surely there is summin???????????
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Oh dear. So to clarify you don't like him anymore? If so why make this post? If you want to stop caring about him just do what he did to you, find somebody else.
I agree. you have apologised and feel bad about what happened. if you don't like him, there is nothing really more that you can do except for walk away. there's no point sitting down and worrying when you have done your best to make it up and you dont even care about him!
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